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Chronic

Well-Known Member
#21
^ Yea, okay. I'm just ASSuming here, but something tells me that illmatic would do just fine in the boys locker room as long as he thinks the half-naked guys around him are straight. If he doesn't want to go, then he doesn't want to go - but it's all about homosexuality.
I agree with this but there's a difference between how you feel and how you think. ill_matic has shown he's not a bigot by supporting his friend but being uncomfortable isn't something you can fix that easily (most of the time). The fact that he's uncomfortable with it might indicate that he's not completely "enlightened" but calling him a homophobe is a bit strong.

I think you should try it though ill, if your only reason for not going is being uncomfortable. Only way to get passed it is to give it a shot (A CUMSHOT TO THE FACE BITCH). It's not like you have to dance, you can just sit at the bar with a bored look on your face.

I think your friend is wrong for taking offense to you not wanting to go there but like Casey pointed out, it might be because he thinks you're not really okay with homosexuality. You can either try to explain it to him or dance the night away.
 

keco52

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Staff member
#22
I think you should just go...you can always walk back out if you hate it. I've been to a gay bar...it was fun.

I don't see why anyone who is comfortable with their sexuality or with other ppls....would be uncomfortable. That's just me...maybe I'm wrong.
 

Casey

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Staff member
#25
LOL at PaulyPac neg repping me over this thread with the comment "Eat shit, fruity boy". LMAO LMAO LMAO.

That's the funniest shit ever.
 

ARon

Well-Known Member
#28
I have a bi-sexul friend and I've been to gay bars with him and his friends. It is actually really fun. They just don't give a shit, people dance yell go crazy like they are in front of the mirror and it's cool. You'll have a good time. You get hit on but it aint no thing, just tell em you arent gay and they do that oooooo thats a shame shit, its kind of funny. Also, gay guys have a lot of straight girl friends, so it's worth it. Your friend sounds like an ass for trying to make you feel bad about not going too.
 

S O F I

Administrator
Staff member
#29
I agree with Chronic. There's nothing wrong about you not wishing to go, but I think you should step out of your "comfort" zone and do something out of the ordinary. When people do that, good things happen.
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#31
ill, you should go. i can see you're not comfortable being surrounded by gay people and you think that you will be the only straight guy there. truth is, a lot of straights girls go to gay clubs. i say give it a try.

i also see how your friend can be deceived by your declination of the invitation. how would you react if you were in ihs place? you're basically sending the message that its okay if he's homosexual but in general you can't stand homosexuals. maybe that's not the message that you wanted to send, but that is what he perceived.

but as mentionned previously, give it a shot. you got nothing to lose. if you don't like it, at least you'll have tried it and your friend should appreciate that you at least gave it a try for him.
 

tHuG $TyLe

Well-Known Member
Staff member
#33
Ive been to a gay bar. infact. My cousin is gay...honestly

Anyway my friend would drag me to see girls kissing...he would just stare at them from touching distance.
 

Casey

Well-Known Member
Staff member
#34
Eh?

What the fuck are you talking about :woah:
talking about this, homes:



were you not sitting at your computer reading streethop at 4.06PM today? cos if not, someone in your house was, either that or someone else knows your password.

if it wasn't you i apologise for the retaliatory neg rep i gave you.
 

Da_Funk

Well-Known Member
#35
Read his fucking post. What else would he be uncomfortable about? Is the bar located in a bad neighborhood? The cousin is a mass murderer? Or is he afraid of being seen at a gay bar? Is he afraid of getting hit on by gay men? Maybe he would rather stay far away from gay people because that's just not him.
Or maybe he just doesn't wanna go because being a straight person at a gay bar would be boring as fuck
 

Bobby Sands

Well-Known Member
#36
Ive been to a gay bar. infact. My cousin is gay...honestly

Anyway my friend would drag me to see girls kissing...he would just stare at them from touching distance.
Dirty Perv.

Dont straight girls go to gay bars so guys wont be hitting on them.

If you dont feel comfortable going then dont go, its as simple as that. Your friend is acting like an asshole. Believe it or not, alot of guys would have stopped being his friend when they found out that he is bi. They just wouldn't be as understanding as you were. Im not saying that i agree with them or anything, its just the way it is. But you stayed down. Just because you dont want to go to a gay bar doesnt make you homophobic. It is downright selfish of your friend to suggest that you are. Its like a muslim person calling a catholic person prejudiced because they dont feel comfortable going to a mosque.
 

AmerikazMost

Well-Known Member
#37
Y'all are getting bent out of shape.

If you're not comfortable, don't go. Ask your friend if he would want to spend the entire night doing something that he can't really participate in and enjoy. Then tell him to fuck off for being unappreciative for all the support you've given him.
 

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