... looking good comes so effortlessly to some women? I mean when I try to look good or elegant, right, I never totally pull it off. My bra strap falls out, my skirt twists around, my belt starts to come off or something. It's like i have to constantly fidget to keep things looking ok meanwhile other girls just seem to look great. Being fashionable and elegant is just so natural for them. I'm a dag basically, lol, I seem to hit and miss in that regard. And being that I dont have much money, I cant always keep up with the latest fashions, I just dont have the cash to be constantly buying shit and besides, thats such a superficial way to live... where do girls get their money from? Maybe if I was a stick thin supermodel type it wouldnt matter, I could wear a potato sack and look good... but that's just not how it is. It's just frustrating to feel so painfully "average" sometimes and not be the elegant, sophisticated, unique style queen that others seem to be. :fury: