Hi guys. I'm just sick and tired of people trying to change me into something that I'm not. I mean, last week, on my birthday, which was October 18th, I went out to the bar. Now as SOFI nicely pointed out in my thread in "Do For Love" I got no action. But, you know, who cares? I don't. I had a lot of fun. I got wasted and hung out with a bunch of new people. Then I find out a couple of days later that the girl that I might have fucked tells my friend that my new name should be "Vanilla" because I refused to dance when these women were grinding up on me. Now, I"m sorry but I don't dance. It's just not my thing at all. So it doesn't matter how drunk I am, dancing is just not something that I feel comfortable doing. I just don't like it. So the next day, my friend tells me that this woman is calling me "vanilla" because I didn't groove with these women. Now, my defense is simple - not everyone on this planet likes to dance, so it's not my fault that I didn't feel like doing it. My friend tells me that I need to step out of the box because if I don't, I'm destined for failure. What are your thoughts? Just because I'm not into dancing should not mean that I"m some kind of loser. Correct?
Tired of People Trying to Change Me
- Thread starter Euphanasia
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i suck at dancing, but that dosent stop me, i just have a few beers, a few more jagerbombs n then go an make an ass outta myself, dancin with a bunch of 40 year old bitches. actualy im prob gonna do it tonight after work.
although that dosent really answer your question i think you should dance, who gives a fuck if ur shit at it, girls mostly like to be with a guy who has a bit of fun.
although that dosent really answer your question i think you should dance, who gives a fuck if ur shit at it, girls mostly like to be with a guy who has a bit of fun.
I say do you. But instead of saying "I just don't feel like dancing" which could mean you're scared to or could be interpret as such anyway, i would rather say "Dancing is stupid and i think it's boring as fuck". That way you insult a hot chick and she'll start thinking about why you wouldn't dance with her. You'll score! Trust me man. Do this and you get pussy forever. 
I don't like to dance too. I never understood what's so nice about it and why girls enjoy it. What is their purpose?
It's really stupid.
And I don't say that because I can't dance, I'm not good in it but I think I'm not THAT bad either. I just don't like it.
Whenever I see people dancing I feel that same embarassment growing in me like I was watching a movie and seen a guy who did something really stupid and made an idiot out of himself - that's so embarassing that it makes me change a channel.
People dancing look dumb indeed imo
It's really stupid.
And I don't say that because I can't dance, I'm not good in it but I think I'm not THAT bad either. I just don't like it.
Whenever I see people dancing I feel that same embarassment growing in me like I was watching a movie and seen a guy who did something really stupid and made an idiot out of himself - that's so embarassing that it makes me change a channel.
People dancing look dumb indeed imo
It sounds like you're available to be teased because you have no self confidence. Who cares if they tease you, laugh it off. If you don't want to do something, then don't. If a girl doesn't like you because you won't dance and you won't dance because you hate dancing... you need to find yourself another girl anyway. She won't be worth your time. If she tries to insult you, insult her by telling her she's not worth your time. Don't let peer pressure make you doubt yourself and what you like to do or don't like to do.
Ehh man, dont take that shit personally at all. Look who its coming from, some lady who is 10 yrs older than you, is still single and still making the same $ as you. Next time she tries to pull that shit turn it around on her for not doing anything with HER LIFE. All you missed out on was some pussy which is nothing to care about unless you only get it once a year.
When your friend said you were destined for failure unless you step out of your box i assume he was talking about falling in love? This could very be true for many people but I wouldn't place too much weight on it seeing as he was talking about a club and the girls you meet in bars are 99% of the time not relationship material.
When your friend said you were destined for failure unless you step out of your box i assume he was talking about falling in love? This could very be true for many people but I wouldn't place too much weight on it seeing as he was talking about a club and the girls you meet in bars are 99% of the time not relationship material.
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