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[keco52]

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Ok...My ex is playing games with me.
We broke up before X-mas and I have not talked to him once since we broke up. I tried to call him and text him...He never responded.
I still wanted to be friends with him and it felt like a kick in the face that he didnt want to stay friends.

I would just send him blank texts to make sure he was ok and alive...I know I'm a loser.

So today...I'm at work and I get a text from him...It says "Happy V-day" with a lil heart....I wait wondering if I should text him back...then caved in 2 hours later and said "U 2"

Then about 6 hours later I get another one..."How have you been?"
I respond "I'm alive" Trying to keep things short and sweet.
He keeps texting "I know you don't wanna hear it but I miss you"
I blow it off saying something like "I have a sense of humor, at least one of us does"....
Then he says..."what plans do you have for the weekend"
I respond "work"
then he says "can we do something anytime whenever"
I say "no"
He finally says "ok, whenver u do let me know"

Why is he doing this...today???!?!?!?! :angry: Just when I'm almost over of the break-up...damnit I'm so mad!!!

 

[ArtsyGirl]

LOL @ your thread title.. Was that to tease the fellas? Anyway I'll ignore your title till you say either way..

He was either trying to be strong since your break up or something not really sure.. But just decide whether you want him back or not.. either way do what your heart tells you. Why did you break up? If u dont mind me asking. Keep in mind it was Valentines Day and it was maybe the only day he really felt lonely.. Be careful. good luck.

 

[Amara]

Why are you trying to put up a front if you dont really feel like that? Perhaps he is making an effort to recover some kind of friendship... but this time you're kicking him in the face, when isnt that what you want?

 

[_carmi]

make your mind up. you want to be friend with him? talk to him. if you dont, ignore him. i know its hard but hey if you stil want to keep him as a friend, try it. he's trying to. or thats what it seems to be.

 

[k69atie]

i hate it when men do this!!!

how do you feel about him? would you like him back? why did you split up? (tell me to mind my own if you want!!)

 

[Beautiful Angel]

all i have to say is follow your heart!

 

[k69atie]

^^ great advice kellie :thumb:

 

[Helena]

all i have to say is follow your heart!

yep! before anything, i'd want an explanation of why he ignored you when you tried to make an effort?

 

[_carmi]

yep! before anything, i'd want an explanation of why he ignored you when you tried to make an effort?

yeah definitly

 

[keco52]

Well we broke up a lil before xmas. He decided to give me an early gift..a ring. An engagement ring. He was ready to settle down and move in together and I was not on the same page. I think he took that as...You don't wanna marry me so why should I waste my time with you. I dont really know.

But he got drunk one night and left nasty messages on my voicemail accusing me of cheating and etc. Even though he apologized it hurt my feelings...and I think he said it because I hurt his feelings by telling him I wasn't ready to get married.

I never wanted us to break up I am just not ready to settle down. He is in the marines and he wanted us to be together all the time...He wanted me to marry him so we could travel together. And I have my own life. I have my own house and job and I want to finish school...so even though I didn't want to marry him NOW...I still love him and care about him.

It's really confusing...We broke up one other time at the start of our relationship...for no reason...he just quit talking to me one day and I didn't hear from him for 2 months.

He told me he stopped talking to me this time because of problems his family was having. That he still cares about me and he's only happy when he's with me...but I'm thinking...maybe he's just lonely. I have no idea.

He's bipolar...I don't know if that has anything to do with it...

another thing...I know he's not the type of person that sleeps around. He's only dated like 1 other girl besides me. So I know he wouldn't just date someone for sex...but...I still think...If he loved me how could he go without talking to me for 2 months.

 

[keco52]

Why are you trying to put up a front if you dont really feel like that? Perhaps he is making an effort to recover some kind of friendship... but this time you're kicking him in the face, when isnt that what you want?

I don't want to kick him in the face...I'm just unsure how to act towards him. He's really the only person I ever loved...but do I keep trying knowing that he has "burned" me 2 times or try to move on?

 

[_carmi]

Well we broke up a lil before xmas. He decided to give me an early gift..a ring. An engagement ring. He was ready to settle down and move in together and I was not on the same page. I think he took that as...You don't wanna marry me so why should I waste my time with you. I dont really know.

But he got drunk one night and left nasty messages on my voicemail accusing me of cheating and etc. Even though he apologized it hurt my feelings...and I think he said it because I hurt his feelings by telling him I wasn't ready to get married.

I never wanted us to break up I am just not ready to settle down. He is in the marines and he wanted us to be together all the time...He wanted me to marry him so we could travel together. And I have my own life. I have my own house and job and I want to finish school...so even though I didn't want to marry him NOW...I still love him and care about him.

It's really confusing...We broke up one other time at the start of our relationship...for no reason...he just quit talking to me one day and I didn't hear from him for 2 months.

He told me he stopped talking to me this time because of problems his family was having. That he still cares about me and he's only happy when he's with me...but I'm thinking...maybe he's just lonely. I have no idea.

He's bipolar...I don't know if that has anything to do with it...

another thing...I know he's not the type of person that sleeps around. He's only dated like 1 other girl besides me. So I know he wouldn't just date someone for sex...but...I still think...If he loved me how could he go without talking to me for 2 months.

he was hurt in this story as much as you. so maybe he thought if i take my distances its gonna work out better. he thought his wounds from the break up would heal up faster if he took his distances. but maybe after 2 months he realised that no matter what he still misses you.

i know a lot of people who after breakups starts ignore the other one to stop thinking about them. so maybe he tried to do the same thing.

for a fact i think you guys should still be together even if you guys are not married. seems like you still love him and he still loves you. you guys should talk about it. because he should try to understand the fact you're not ready to be settled and not taking it as a rejection or an insult. he must have felt rejected because you didnt want to get married now.

anyways the solution to this id you guys having a good conversation.

 

[Synful*Luv]

He was probably just as hurt as you were, and sometimes the best way to get over that pain, and to be able to talk to someone without anger, hostility, or resentment is to just give it time.

He should respect the fact that you're not ready to settle down yet, but I'm sure that hurt like hell for him.

At the same time, girl, you remind me of myself. And if you're anything like me, you're like, I'm single, no kids, I have my own place, I work, go to school, and take care of me, WITHOUT ANY MAN. And sometimes, it's hard to give up that independence for the sake of a relationship. Which is what I'm trying to learn how to do now. You have to learn how to be part of a unit without feeling as if you're compromising yourself and who you are. You can be independent and still settle down. Don't let fear make you miss out on a good thing.

However, if you know that you aren't ready to settle down, then don't. You won't be able to give all of yourself to the relationship and you both deserve better than 50%.

Love ya girl, just my opinion
Syn

 

[_carmi]

*awaiting for keco's reply on this thread*

 

[Synful*Luv]

*waits with Carmi*

*runs up behind Carmi and pushes her*

*runs away*

*still waiting*

 

[keco52]

Sorry guys I've been busy. Didn't think you guys would care to hear the updated story...but here goes.

We (me and the ex) have been texting. He told me that he misses me and I told him the same...but we haven't seen each other or even talked over the phone. I don't think we'll be together but he'll always be one of my best friends.

I'm actually taking a different job so I can "date" my boss...If that makes any sense. We don't really want to date but the other employees thought we were getting a little too close and although our relationship at work is very professional we have been hanging out a lot after work...and he has mentioned he'd like it to be more...but obviously we couldn't as long as he is my boss.

Around the time of him telling me he'd like us to be more I got another job offer making more money (a lot more) but also longer hours and harder work...which I'm fine with.

So I have a new job...I had two jobs. Now I'll have one job making the same amount of money if not more.

As for the boyfriend situation...I just want to date. I'm not ready to be in another relationship....I do like my boss a lot...but whatever happens I'll be completely ok with it.

I'm just at a point in my life where I don't want to dwell on anything I just want to keep moving forward...

 

[_carmi]

so basically your not getting back with your ex, and you'll be dating your ex-boss. cool :thumb: keep moving forward girl. do what the fuck you want whenerver you want. as long as you have your mind clear, its all good.

 

[Synful*Luv]

Of course we're interested in what's going on with you kid :thumb:

Don't forget us with ur new busy lifestyle :sad:

 

[_carmi]

Of course we're interested in what's going on with you kid :thumb:

Don't forget us with ur new busy lifestyle :sad:

yeah dont forget us


*notices syn has put carmi in recognized psters *

 

[Helena]

so basically your not getting back with your ex, and you'll be dating your ex-boss. cool :thumb: keep moving forward girl. do what the fuck you want whenerver you want. as long as you have your mind clear, its all good.

that's right!:thumb: