Just got out of jail

[shattered dreams]

Yeah, so after finding out my boyfriend has talked to other girls, i call it cheating he says he didnt do anything physical. Whatever. We got in a fight, more like a wrestling match, and my mother called the cops. Not on him, BUT ON ME. Can you believe that shit?

So ive spent the last three days in jail. And by the way he accidentaly busted my lip when he feel on me, and the cops thought he hit me and i was covering him. So i did what a real woman would do, and took the blame for everything. And i went to jail instead of him. God im a fucking loyal bitch. Fuck man, then to make the situation even worse, My sister backstabs me talking all this shit to my father about me. THEN i get out of jail, and i start laughing with my father, like five minutes after i got out. And my mother calls him after she leaves the house. Pissed because i was laughing with him and not her! shes the dumb bitch that called the cops on me. And then me and her get an argument and she has the nerve to say "why are you so angry"... wtf ever.

But as far as me and lance go, I dont know whats going to happen. He feels like shit and when he did everything was when i was pregnant and before i went to jail. So we will see. God forgave right? I dont know whats going to happen, everytime he kisses me i feel like shit.

Man the hardest part was not seeing my little girl. It fucking ripped me apart.

 

[ArtsyGirl]

No matter what Lance gotta stay involved but that doesnt mean you gotta be walked on, set a boundary that he knows if he goes across theres gonna be concequences. But he is her father and you gotta stay outta jail, if you get into a fight walk away your girl needs you.

 

[Amara]

I dont want to sound too harsh but I cant say I have any sympathy for you. You're the mother of a newborn child, that should be your ultimate priority and you have a huge responsibility, it just seems irresponsible to over react like that especially when the one who suffers most is your baby when you're not there when you need to be or that the pettiness between you and him causes you to divert your attention from where it needs to be. So I wouldnt go on about loyalty coz it seems your loyalty is rather misplaced. I'm sorry if thats too harsh, I dont mean to offend, I'm just saying.

 

[shattered dreams]

First off, im not taking offense.I respect both of your oppinions. But my loyality isnt misplaced. I gave my daughter to my mother to take downstairs so me and lance could talk it out, and incase we got in an argument she wouldnt have to hear it. It just turned into a heated discussion, we got up in each others face, and it escalated from there. And before the talk, i had written him a letter and he didnt read it. So instead we both agree and we tried to talk. And thats when it all happened. I didnt hit him, he didnt hit me, It was more like a wrestling match, like forcing your weight, not even pushing, but we tripped. And thats when she bugged the fuck out.

And artistic girl, i know, he is staying in her life period. I know whats it like to not have a father, i was talking about as far as me and him goes. But since ive gotten out, we talked about it, and he was crying and saying he didnt realize how much he loved me, until he saw me go. And realized he didnt want any other girls, and tonight we got in the shower together and had a moment. And it was almost like our love was renewed. Now we just got to work to make sure it doesnt happen again.

And dont get me wrong, ive told cops, and everyone else what i did was wrong. Im not getting out of that, but i wasnt the only one wrong in the situation. I should of never tried to talk to him at that time was my fault. The forcing the weight was both of ours, But we werent fist fighting. And it was my fault i didnt leave you are right. But still to have a three day sentence for what happened and have everyone backstab me is fucking ridicoulous.

 

[G.Litt]

he accidentaly busted my lip when he feel on me

Sure

So i did what a real woman would do, and took the blame for everything. And i went to jail instead of him. God im a fucking loyal bitch.

R U serious?

WOW.

 

[Synful*Luv]

Girl, you're a mommy now, time to grow up. No time for all that ghetto mess anymore. You're trying to protect him, but look what you're doing to yourself. You have a record now, you think any employers are going to listen to that story and say "i'm sorry, I understand,that sucks, etc" no they aren't. They're going to see that you've been arrested and that's all they're going to care about.

And realize that just because he's the father of your child it does not mean that he has to be in your life. Only hers. Don't let me treat you like shit and feel as if you deserve it because of the baby. There are plenty of single parents out there handling their business on their own. Let him know, you can forgive him once but if it happens again...it's over.

And if it happens again, leave. YOU DESERVE BETTER than someone who will cheat on you!

 

[_carmi]

long distance relationships.. thats what he does and thats why i dislike them because it always ends up with a couple of lies there and here and when truth is found out, shit hits the fan.

you should make him know that if he ever does that again, he's fuckin out of your life. he has the right to be in her life being the father of the kid, but you must not let yourself being walked on like this. be independant. you are able to manage things on your own.

as for the fight and jail time, girl get mature, you are a mother. theres no excuse for this.