Ok, well, how to begin....ok well a couple of months ago my best friend and I got in a huuuuge fight with someone we considered a VERY close friend almost best. It was because this so called friend (named Alma) told us that we didnt care about her (huge lie back then) but things weren't so. We were just trying to make her understand something and she just went ballistic on us and told us off. Which of course lead to us telling her of and eventually not speaking anymore. Well today in tennis I along with a couple of other girls were talking about football (because I decided to join the team lol) and Alma comes along being nice (so of course I'm not going to ignore her) and asked me some questions about football, which I answered. Anyway we talked a bit more and then she asked why Little One (my best friend) and I stopped talking to her, and I told her because she was being a bitch (which she was). She started telling me her story and I listened because I NEVER turn down people that come to me with problems. Anyways I felt like I connected with her in so many ways. I didnt feel like talking or even listening to her but I couldnt stop. Now Little One is mad at me (even though she says she isnt) and I dont know what to do. I dont want her to feel as if I betrayed her, because I would NEVER do that to her. I mean one best friendship is better than a friendship I really didnt want back, but there is no nice way to say that now is there? I dunno what to do, Im so confused. I dont want to get in stupid arguments with my best friend about stupid issues, and I really dont want to get buddy buddy with Alma again, but I'm too nice to say anything mean or anything like 'oh you know what lets not speak anymore'.........any adivce on this? What could or should I do?
