Fast or slow?

#1
Was talking to my friend today and we were discussing which is better, fast or slow sex. lol. The old stereotype is that it's better slow to last longer and whatever but I dont think so, but my friend thinks it is. She said her ex bf was always fast, so she prefers it slow now (which is probably way more info than I needed to know, lol). But anyway, I was wondering whether people agree with the cliche that it's better for a woman when a guy takes it slow...
 
#3
k69atie said:
I like both, depends on what mood i am in! Lol, there is also the question whether it is hard or not! lol
Yeah I guess neither one or the other is best.

Hard or not.... well depends on whether you wanna walk the next day or not! :eek:
 
#4
Amara said:
Was talking to my friend today and we were discussing which is better, fast or slow sex. lol. The old stereotype is that it's better slow to last longer and whatever but I dont think so, but my friend thinks it is. She said her ex bf was always fast, so she prefers it slow now (which is probably way more info than I needed to know, lol). But anyway, I was wondering whether people agree with the cliche that it's better for a woman when a guy takes it slow...

lol are you and your friend horny today Amara? :D

Well I prefer to start off slow, get fast, then go slow again and then end the session going really fast.

If I had to pick one or the other though I'd say fast :thumb:
 

k69atie

SicC's Love
#5
^ lol yeah that's true.

really depends what mood i am in, if im feeling "dirty" i want it hard and fast but i like it slow too makes it more emotional and intimate dunno if that makes sense?
 
#6
~live2tell~ said:
lol are you and your friend horny today Amara? :D

Well I prefer to start off slow, get fast, then go slow again and then end the session going really fast.

If I had to pick one or the other though I'd say fast :thumb:
Nooo, I'm talking about my best friend Emma not my 'friend' lol. That's a sick thought, me and Emma. :eek:
 
#8
Amara said:
Nooo, I'm talking about my best friend Emma not my 'friend' lol. That's a sick thought, me and Emma. :eek:

Nooooo I know, I didn't mean horny for each other!!!! lol

And yes Katie it can sometimes be more intimate slower but needs must and all that :D
 
#10
k69atie said:
^^^ Lol yeah i know what you mean, i only want it slow when i am in the mood for it, i prefer it fast the rest of the time :D

See I'm pretty much the opposite really, I prefer it slow when I'm not really in the mood lol
 
#11
^^ lol i meant i want it slow when i am not in the mood for it fast! lol

but the rate i'm going at the mo (had sex 3 times in the past 20 months :() i will take it how ever! lol :D
 

Synful*Luv

Well-Known Member
Staff member
#12
Depends on the mood and the situation, for me, if we're mad at each other, we have Angry sex which is fast and the best, but say I was upset and crying over a movie or something, then we have sad sex which is nice and slow. It just depends.

But for the most part I prefer slow sex that speeds up as we go along, lol

Since i'm now officially single, i'm getting no sex at all :(
 
#14
Synful*Luv said:
Depends on the mood and the situation, for me, if we're mad at each other, we have Angry sex which is fast and the best, but say I was upset and crying over a movie or something, then we have sad sex which is nice and slow. It just depends.
lol @ the thought of having sex while mad at each other.

My preference probably varies on account of whether I am drunk or not, lol... slow if sober, fast if drunk. Guess it has something to do with inhibitions.

k69atie said:
I had it at the weekend but that was the 1st time in MONTHS! lol
'It' as in sex? and hey, didnt you say you met someone off the board last weekend...? lol.
 
#17
I agree with most everyone else, depends on what kinda mood I'm in. If I've been drinking or I'm high, I like it hard and fast :D If I'm in a romantic mood, I like it slow and easy. :thumb:
 
#19
I like a guy to take his time lead me to that point.

However, guys just can't seem to take it slow umm guess the p. is just too good!!!!

I hear im sorry liz alot and this is from long term ex-hubby (he dont get it anymore) and ex b/f (well he don't get it anymore either).

My new guy and this is gonna be funny cause its internet sex lol which is awesome u guys gotta try it - time will only see if he a fast or slow guy.

and no i dont send any nude pix thru email just well lets say very revealing sexy pix.

and i take it what is said in here stays in here......

Poem I wrote 4 him


Please don't go
Close the door
Lets try it on the floor
Babe only for u cause I adore


Erotic thoughts everywhere
Sinfully lusting for you
Dare I touch myself

Images of you in my head
Sippin you like sweet wine
From your vine

Heart skipping a Beat
Nipples erect with heat
Legs spread apart
Ready for a treat

My eyes begging you
Enter me now
Hit that magic spot
Where its so hot

You may get some ass
If you do it fast
You get a blow for sho
If you do it slow

Now lay me down on the floor
Where I make your jimmy grow
Have you begging for mo



p.s. its just a poem somethings i do something just written for the effect...


liz
 
#20
^ lol. That's so cool. I think my bf would be so overwhelmed if I wrote him something like that. ;)

I dunno about internet sex. You just wouldnt know who to trust. And next thing you know, you'd have Traz posting pics of you all up in Our Block!

And yep, dont worry. I think there's an implied code of secrecy in here. lol. :thumb:
 

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