So, let's see. You enter a totally white and empty room. Mel B. is on the floor, legs spread like some Biblical whore. At that point you go "Well, Mrs. B, I'm terribly sorry but based on what I've heard, I don't like your personality. So never mind the fact I don't even have to talk to you or see you ever again, I'm just going to NOT put my dick in your vagina, because your reported personality is a theoretical turn-off for me"
That would make you a total, emotionally-driven, utterly reprehensible shadow of a man.
In fact, it would make you a GIRL.