Hottest thing in the world

[raywaters11]

Sofi giving, Ray taking-strong possibility

Sofi: Yooo. I...I...I...I...feel big. I heard you were looking for me?

*background music*
Awww they pointin and ooo'n
ohh but we gone keep on doing....it
like its just me and you and no one else around

lmmfao,
where did that come from...

blind-sided with being called gay, with SOFI???
way to start my morning, lmao.

 

[Synful*Luv]

^ I didn't say HIS baby I said A baby.

There's no way to tell if it's his or not... Does a baby have tags that identify the owner??... they should though

But yeah I see what you're saying but a man holding a baby just doesn't do it for me. :suspicious:

I'm don't really know you so I found it hard to determine if you were being serious, but...was that a joke, or..?

The delivery wasn't serious, no. However, i'm not one of those girls who fawn over babies, think they're adorable and find a man holding a baby or puppy or other small thing attractive.

So... sue me. I'm not at a point in my life where i'm looking for paternal qualities in a man.

And seriously, doesn't it annoy you when girls say "awwwww" in that high sing song voice for no reason? Blah.

She's 100% serious. And whats even more sad, I semi-agree with her

Why sad? You wish you found a man holding a baby to be a turn on?:worried: hehehe kidding

Why would you think I wouldn't care about someone not being able to handle their money?


Someone who is bad with credit/money, and can't pay their bills b/c of it and is therefore in debt is a liability. Its one more responisibility I don't want or need for that matter. I'm not your parents and I'm not gonna baby you through your fuck ups if they're that detrimental to my well being.

Same thing goes for a kid. Its one more responsibility I don't want or need in my life. Its a cold-hearted view, I know.

Correct me if I'm wrong Syn. I know its how I feel.

I'm talking about relationships here, not getting in someones pants.

I agree, now is the time to be carefree.

Who wants to be saddled down with so much negative responsibility at a young age if they don't have too? Bad credit? Kids? Tons of bad debt? Irresponsibility?

Who has two thumbs and doesn't want a part of that? This girl! LOLOL (lame sorry, I had to)

And it's not cold hearted it's smart. If you aren't ready to have a kid in your life, then you also need to be smart enough to acknowledge that.

And who wrote this unspoken rule that people HAVE to think kids are cute? They really aren't until they reach about 6 months.. they all look like foreign objects.

 

[Duke]

There's no way to tell if it's his or not... Does a baby have tags that identify the owner??... they should though

But yeah I see what you're saying but a man holding a baby just doesn't do it for me.



The delivery wasn't serious, no. However, i'm not one of those girls who fawn over babies, think they're adorable and find a man holding a baby or puppy or other small thing attractive.

So... sue me. I'm not at a point in my life where i'm looking for paternal qualities in a man.

And seriously, doesn't it annoy you when girls say "awwwww" in that high sing song voice for no reason? Blah.



Why sad? You wish you found a man holding a baby to be a turn on? hehehe kidding



I agree, now is the time to be carefree.

Who wants to be saddled down with so much negative responsibility at a young age if they don't have too? Bad credit? Kids? Tons of bad debt? Irresponsibility?

Who has two thumbs and doesn't want a part of that? This girl! LOLOL (lame sorry, I had to)

And it's not cold hearted it's smart. If you aren't ready to have a kid in your life, then you also need to be smart enough to acknowledge that.

And who wrote this unspoken rule that people HAVE to think kids are cute? They really aren't until they reach about 6 months.. they all look like foreign objects.

It's cool. I thought the bad credit comment made you look like a shameless gold digger But now I see how you meant it, hehe.


Babies are cute, but godallmighty are they ugly Like blobs of molten cheese.

 

[Synful*Luv]

Best case scenario is the baby is his nephew/niece or friends baby for example. But I think its pretty harsh to write someone off just because they have a kid, I'd hate the reverse mentality on me. At least it shows he's willing to take care of his child.

I think each person has to know what they're willing to accept and deal with in a relationship. It's not harsh to write someone off because they have kids, it's that person's right to do so.

If Becky knows she doesn't want to be a mom anytime soon, should she:
A. date men with kids if they're hot and ignore the kids
B. not date men with kids

Why settle for something in a relationship? Rather its settling for someone with extra baggage (kids) or something else (compulsive liar).

I hate the idea of settling

When my step-dad got divorced to his first wife, he was taking care of his kid and STILL had to pay child support to the mother, and it wasn't like 100$ a month here, it was a substantial amount. He almost lost everything taking care of his daughter , and paying his whore schizo ex-wife for a kid she wasn't even taking care of, and still he still worked full time at a decent job.

Shit happens at times and you don't expect it. People go into debt for their kids

So, people that go into money problems, or bad credit, just to do the best for their child isn't stupid or a bad, it's the right thing to do. At least you know they have their priorities set.

Heya Flip,

That's not what I meant. i'm sorry I wasn't completely clear b/c I was also joking around.

Someone with a child should DEFINITELY make a full effort to take care of that child, regardless of if it causes debt, etc. That should be done and should also be commended.

What I was saying in that post is if a man is holding a kid it is a turn off instead of a turn on for me. I am not ready to think about children at this point in my life. So, a man with a child reminds of me of other negative things such as bad credit or lots of debt, etc. These are other things I would find unattractive in a potential significant other to hold a long term relationship with.

Does that make more sense?

 

[Synful*Luv]

There's a difference between actually being bad with money and having no money. Syn wasn't as clear in her first post as to what she meant exactly.

That's true, there is a difference. I didn't mention anything about anyone being broke though, so I think my post was clear. I don't care as much if someone is broke.. I don't know their situation. I do care if someone is unable to adequately manage their finances due to irresponsibility or immaturity alone. I.E. splurging on random things instead of paying bills.

 

[keco52]

Again...it doesn't have anything to do with settling either. Never thought I'd have to explain something so simple.

You look for someone who is responsible with money bc you want to know if you ever marry this person you'll be financially secure.

You look for someone who is good with kids bc eventually if you marry the person you want to know they'll be a good parent.

Unless you don't want kids EVER...and then you just fail at life. JK...then none of this applies to you and that's the end.

 

[Flipmo]

I think each person has to know what they're willing to accept and deal with in a relationship. It's not harsh to write someone off because they have kids, it's that person's right to do so.

If Becky knows she doesn't want to be a mom anytime soon, should she:
A. date men with kids if they're hot and ignore the kids
B. not date men with kids

Why settle for something in a relationship? Rather its settling for someone with extra baggage (kids) or something else (compulsive liar).

I hate the idea of settling



Heya Flip,

That's not what I meant. i'm sorry I wasn't completely clear b/c I was also joking around.

Someone with a child should DEFINITELY make a full effort to take care of that child, regardless of if it causes debt, etc. That should be done and should also be commended.

What I was saying in that post is if a man is holding a kid it is a turn off instead of a turn on for me. I am not ready to think about children at this point in my life. So, a man with a child reminds of me of other negative things such as bad credit or lots of debt, etc. These are other things I would find unattractive in a potential significant other to hold a long term relationship with.

Does that make more sense?

My mistake, Syn. I was probably reading it in a different way. It makes much more sense the way you explained it.

 

[Synful*Luv]

My mistake, Syn. I was probably reading it in a different way. It makes much more sense the way you explained it.

No worries

Also, looove your signature that video was hilarious to me.

It's cool. I thought the bad credit comment made you look like a shameless gold digger But now I see how you meant it, hehe.


Babies are cute, but godallmighty are they ugly Like blobs of molten cheese.

LOL, no gold digging here, I see what you're saying though, lol

They are cute once they have features and it seems to vary as to when their features develop from kid to kid but newborns? Gessh, those are some ugly things

 

[Synful*Luv]

Again...it doesn't have anything to do with settling either. Never thought I'd have to explain something so simple.

You look for someone who is responsible with money bc you want to know if you ever marry this person you'll be financially secure.

You look for someone who is good with kids bc eventually if you marry the person you want to know they'll be a good parent.

Unless you don't want kids EVER...and then you just fail at life. JK...then none of this applies to you and that's the end.

As I said, I understand what you're saying. You don't have to keep explaining it, you choose to do so. Which by all means is totally fine with me.

At this point in my life, I could CARE LESS if a man is good with kids or not. I don't plan on having kids ANY time soon so that wouldn't be a quality I looked for in a potential significant other. The other things, financial stability, maturity, etc... are things that would effect my life now, on an every day basis.

So, again, I definitely get the point you're making. I just don't find a man with kids desirable and I don't find a man who's good with kids a better potential mate than any other because kids are nowhere to be found on my list of concerns for the next ten years.

Here's my list in case you're interested:

1. Get promotions
2. Make monies
3. Buy a yaris
4. Volunteer more
5. Travel lots
6. Upgrade to PS4 and Xbox 640!!
7. Enjoy delicious food
8. Learn 3 more languages
9. Win lottery
10. Move somewhere warm year round

*double checks list*

Yup, no kids on there and kids seem to interfere with almost everything that IS on my list, hehehehe

 

[Duke]

A Yaris?

z0ImG

 

[Synful*Luv]

A Yaris?

z0ImG

yes :embarresd:

the tiny two door one too, lol, it's efficient and adorable, plus supposed to last for awhile.

Either that or a VW that runs on diesel. That'll get me 300K miles or so before the car dies! Plus roughly 600 miles (965.60km) in between fill ups.

 

[Flipmo]

lol, A Yaris. I actually drove one of those a few weeks ago. For a little car, it sure can floor, I nearly gave my mother a heart attack. She kept hitting me with a magazine after I stopped the car.

Fun little toy.

 

[dillaxx]

lol, A Yaris. I actually drove one of those a few weeks ago. For a little car, it sure can floor, I nearly gave my mother a heart attack. She kept hitting me with a magazine after I stopped the car.

Fun little toy.

Are you sure it was her "magazine" she was hitting you with? 2

 

[ill-matic]

As I said, I understand what you're saying. You don't have to keep explaining it, you choose to do so. Which by all means is totally fine with me.

At this point in my life, I could CARE LESS if a man is good with kids or not. I don't plan on having kids ANY time soon so that wouldn't be a quality I looked for in a potential significant other. The other things, financial stability, maturity, etc... are things that would effect my life now, on an every day basis.

So, again, I definitely get the point you're making. I just don't find a man with kids desirable and I don't find a man who's good with kids a better potential mate than any other because kids are nowhere to be found on my list of concerns for the next ten years.

Here's my list in case you're interested:

1. Get promotions
2. Make monies
3. Buy a yaris
4. Volunteer more
5. Travel lots
6. Upgrade to PS4 and Xbox 640!!
7. Enjoy delicious food
8. Learn 3 more languages
9. Win lottery
10. Move somewhere warm year round

*double checks list*

Yup, no kids on there and kids seem to interfere with almost everything that IS on my list, hehehehe

all your posts are like a semi-biography.

 

[SicC]

So syn whats your credit score?

pz

 

[dillaxx]

Buy a BMW like I got.

 

[SicC]

Buy a BMW like I got.

Did you buy it yourself? New? Used? Lease? Seeing as your in school something tells me you did not purchase it without some help from your parents, but I could be incorrect.

pz

 

[raywaters11]

well this thread got slightly off topic

 

[Jeremy]

Did you buy it yourself? New? Used? Lease? Seeing as your in school something tells me you did not purchase it without some help from your parents, but I could be incorrect.

pz

I think you know the answer to that.

 

[ill-matic]

Did you buy it yourself? New? Used? Lease? Seeing as your in school something tells me you did not purchase it without some help from your parents, but I could be incorrect.

pz

mama and papa bought it for their hard working son