I've been sober for 4 months. Not to say I drink a lot, but once the new year started, I started to have a drink 2x a week.
Friday, and Saturday. If there was football, it would be 3x.
It was basically a shot or two of vodka with cranberry or whatever I had.
I think I am going to continue it.
When I didn't do this, I would say that I always start conversations that are deep, but I somehow always sneak in a joke that makes everyone laugh that is relevent to the story somehow. Till this day, I don't know how I do it, but beause of it, people tend to convince me to go to parties. I just haven't been in the mood lately though.