^^ im not. just dont want her being hurt or whatever after everything is done and the boy has gotten what he wanted and she is left heartbroken or whatever...
thing is, she seems to have become overly secretive nowadays and its not like anyone invades her privacy. we just chat, talk, make fun out of each other etc even as friends usually do.
like i said, she can do whatever she wants, so can my brother, just the way i do whatever i want. but i dont want the blame coming onto me since im closer to her than any of her relatives who live nearby, because i was the one who always went to london to see them every summer and spent weeks there. so basically if something bad happens, i dont want them to say "oh, you shouldve kept a closer eye out for her and made sure she was okay".
but fuck it, ima continue as normal, as a brother does and look out for her. i can only do so much without interfering - and i DONT intend on interfering, because its HER life.
even still. i think it was my brothers. and i never question him about things he wants to obviously keep private to himself. but i found it quite funny because the day my brother got caught with a condom in his wallet (before my mum found the wallet in trousers in the laundry basket a long time ago) - my brother said he was looking after it for a friend. so, he told me the same thing yesterday, too.
thing is, she seems to have become overly secretive nowadays and its not like anyone invades her privacy. we just chat, talk, make fun out of each other etc even as friends usually do.
like i said, she can do whatever she wants, so can my brother, just the way i do whatever i want. but i dont want the blame coming onto me since im closer to her than any of her relatives who live nearby, because i was the one who always went to london to see them every summer and spent weeks there. so basically if something bad happens, i dont want them to say "oh, you shouldve kept a closer eye out for her and made sure she was okay".
but fuck it, ima continue as normal, as a brother does and look out for her. i can only do so much without interfering - and i DONT intend on interfering, because its HER life.
even still. i think it was my brothers. and i never question him about things he wants to obviously keep private to himself. but i found it quite funny because the day my brother got caught with a condom in his wallet (before my mum found the wallet in trousers in the laundry basket a long time ago) - my brother said he was looking after it for a friend. so, he told me the same thing yesterday, too.