ill-matic said:
What is this, a retirement village? Thugz Mansion was the place where all sorts of shit happened. I mean, COME ON, you CANNOT seriously admit that it WASN'T FUN when the board was at its peak. To deny it would be just ridiculous. And what's with this "calm" business? How is it a good thing? Threads remain in the same spot for weeks on end, and you like this? It's as if you prefer that there is MINIMAL activity on this board. That doesn't make sense. I don't see why anyone would prefer that to having the board buzz with loads of activity and have it filled with a community made up of multiple and eccentric personalities. The community was what made the board. The fun factor was what made Thugz Mansion the most popular sub-forum of the board. That's all gone now and yet you prefer it like this? Makes no sense to me, but each to their own i guess.
From this thread alone it's pretty evident that "having shit goin on in their lives" isn't the only reason for people not posting. Why bother arguing this?
Well, being one of the people mentioned by SiGh. I can say that having other things to do in my life is the reason why I don't post as much. When I first joined, it was my freshman year of college. I had pretty much nothing to do. I wasn't old enough to go to clubs. I wasn't certain what I wanted to major in, I was just hanging out. So, sitting in the dorms with other idiots led me to hanging out online a lot. And I mean, yeah, back then it was A LOT of fun. I remember sitting online till 3 or 4 am with Froggie, SiGh, KeCo, etc talking on AIM and waiting on something cool to happen from an expose thread ect. But I mean, as an adult, I have responsibilities. I have a job, I have to finish my degree, etc. I don't have time to hang online as much anymore. So, I mean, those days of sitting around on TB doing nothing are pretty much over.
And after awhile, the immaturity does get annoying. When I would come online and post...say I wanted to talk about something serious that was going on at the time, there would always be one idiot to kick off a bunch of nonsense replies to what was a serious topic and get the thread closed.
I came back only because a few members I respect asked me too. Most of the people who I talked to on here, aren't on here as much anyway. We keep in touch via e-mail, myspace, or different messengers. With the annoying members running rampid through here, and having other means of contacting them...this leads to a lot of people, including myself, not posting as much.
Retirement home? NO. However, most of us are at pivotal points in our lives, about to graduate from college, entering the real work field, trying to find out "where do we go from here", getting married, having children,etc. When you grow up, you do different things. The jokes and conversations mature as well.
The bad part is for the younger members, that a lot of you missed out on us being silly, young, and dumb. And now you're here once we've all grown up. At 21, the same porn jokes aren't funny to us anymore. Hell, we can make our own damn porn. Sorry kiddos. But the good part is, you can learn from a lot of our stories and mistakes and use them as guidance in your own lives. You'll get a lot of different perspectives. Plus, a lot of times, if you need advice and don't want to tell anyone close to you, you can ask someone from here. I've talked to many people on here about problems i've had and gotten damn good advice. I've done the same for just as many people. Yes, there are positive sides to this. But, just like life, hip hop, and relationships....the board as well matures with you.