I Had To Make My Own Homosexual Thread (Serious)

#22
i think that if you didn't work with those gay guys you would have never developed this paranoia, so just dont listen to what they have to say or w/e and you'll be fine
 
#23
My best friend is the same way. Not the gay thing, but the over analyzing part. She isn't working right now so she has nothing but time on her hands. She'll call me 50 times a day and be like "You know, I was just thinking...." and it's usually about the same subject. I just tell her she's got too much time to think about things. Once she finds another job, she'll have too much to do to analyze every little thing. I know you work, but what do you do in your spare time, when not at work? I bet when you're not working, you just sit and think about the things these men have said to you.You're prolly alot like my friend. Find something to do in your spare time so that you don't have time to sit around and think about everything so intensely.
Glad you're feeling better about yourself because you definately haven't been the same E we're used to. Keep ya head up playa, you'll be aight. ;)
Peace
 
#24
I know how you feel cuz my best friend used to have the same problems you have. He had many female friends just cuz guys of our age were very inmature, he could talk about more importants things with me and the other girls. And about not wanting to be in love, it has happened to me, there was some time I didn't want to be with boys, I went to clubs and they approached me, but I said NO to all of them. I started thinking I had some kind of problem, and maybe I didn't people at all, but then I realised it was just a stage, and I think it's something normal when you're a teenager.
And I also wanted to say that I completely agree with what you said about gays, I shared my whole childhood with one of them: they are not born, and it's not a choice. Maybe something happens to them (like their parents divorce) that leaves a mark on them for the rest of their lives, or maybe not. It depends on each situation, and it's always difficult to tell what happened.
 

Eric

Well-Known Member
#25
Makiaveli said:
do you find men attractive? im not saying can say "that guy is ugly and that guy is not", do u get turned on by men? if no, then ur not gay relax haha.

ppl get on my ass because i like to shop, i dont talk about "bitches" and i can look at a girl's view. w/e it really doesnt get to me.
I'm not turned on by men. I never have been.

PS: Lol @ the hold hands response whoever said that.
 
#27
Interesting read E, surprising to see such a serious post coming from you (good job ;) ) .. even more interesting was how many guys said that they been there too. Is your sexuality something all guys question as theyre growing up? I mean, do you guys really gota sit & think about whether youre straight, bi or gay?
 
#29
Belle said:
Interesting read E, surprising to see such a serious post coming from you (good job ;) ) .. even more interesting was how many guys said that they been there too. Is your sexuality something all guys question as theyre growing up? I mean, do you guys really gota sit & think about whether youre straight, bi or gay?
no, i've never been turned on by a guy
 
#32
Jurhum said:
^ Why would anyone need to question their sexuality. I never did. I know i'm striaght. that's it.
Everyone at some point, usually during adolescene, questions their sexuality. It's simply part of the progression to adulthood. Therefore you're either lying or something's not right.
 
#34
Zero Cool said:
Everyone at some point, usually during adolescene, questions their sexuality. It's simply part of the progression to adulthood. Therefore you're either lying or something's not right.
there is empirical evidence for this?
aside from that, if i watch too much bullshit tv and read bullshit magazines who TELL me that I have to question my sexuality and if I swallow the bullshit theories of modern day psychologists then i would find myself questioning even my parents sexuality. its just the power of suggestion.
 
#35
not really ken said:
there is empirical evidence for this?
aside from that, if i watch too much bullshit tv and read bullshit magazines who TELL me that I have to question my sexuality and if I swallow the bullshit theories of modern day psychologists then i would find myself questioning even my parents sexuality. its just the power of suggestion.
Power of suggestion? Hardly. I don't understand why it's so hard for you to admit that you have questioned yourself during your life. I don't know of one person who truly hasn't.
 
#36
Zero Cool said:
Power of suggestion? Hardly. I don't understand why it's so hard for you to admit that you have questioned yourself during your life. I don't know of one person who truly hasn't.
explain questioned?

I have never questioned the fact that i may be gay, as it has never crossed my mind. I have never thought about having a boyfriend neither have i ever fantasised about being with a guy
 
#37
not really ken said:
explain questioned?

I have never questioned the fact that i may be gay, as it has never crossed my mind. I have never thought about having a boyfriend neither have i ever fantasised about being with a guy
Put simply, I don't believe you. How you cannot have questioned your sexuality for even the briefest moments throught your life is a mystifying feat in itself. I raise this not pejoratively but simply out of interest, would your religion have anything to do with your reasoning?
 
#38
not really ken said:
explain questioned?

I have never questioned the fact that i may be gay, as it has never crossed my mind. I have never thought about having a boyfriend neither have i ever fantasised about being with a guy


Liar...

Everybody has questioned his or her sexuality at one point in life..That is normal...That is supposed to happen...!
Newayz questioning ur sexuality doesn't mean u think of gay sex or having a boyfriend...
It's a small thing you either don't want to admit it or don't want to remember it...
 

Latest posts

Donate

Any donations will be used to help pay for the site costs, and anything donated above will be donated to C-Dub's son on behalf of this community.

Members online

No members online now.
Top