Fallin....

[Beautiful Angel]

I think i'm falling in love with my boyfriend Matt, and we've only been togethe since 09-18-2005.

he's the best thing that's ever happen to me and he's everything i've been lookin for my whole life

is it too soon???
i'm starting to get scared and i don't want to screw things up.
what do i do??


any feedback is appreciated
thanx
Kel

 

[Helena]

aww that's sooooo sweet!
you can't help when u fall in love with someone..it kinda just happens.
i don't think it's too soon..but it might be too soon to tell him depending on how he feels. does u think he feels the same way?

 

[Beautiful Angel]

i know he likes me alot, he's told me i'm everything he's been looking for, but i don't want to rush things ya know
i just don't know how long i can keep these feelings to myself

 

[Helena]

hrrrm..i dunno it's a tough one. iv'e never actually told a guy i love him first..i would be too scared of rejection.
BUT seen as he's said ur everythin he's been lookin for...he very well might feel the same.
do what u feel is right.

 

[Beautiful Angel]

i've always been the one to say it first except for one time....i think the times i've said it first i didn't really love the ppl where as the times i waited for them to say it i did mean it, confusing i know

i think i will wait don't want to scare him

 

[Helena]

ok girl...just give it a bit of time...see how things go..
im happy for u though! i wish i was in love!!! i miss that feeling

 

[Beautiful Angel]

it will come to you in time, just be patient dear you are still young

 

[Synful*Luv]

When it happens, it happens.

I've only been with my new boyfriend for about a month now, and I can definately see me loving him, and being in love with him some time in the near future.

And all of my happiness wouldn't be possible if it wasn't for you telling me about how happy you and Matt are, and convincing me that it's not too soon to start dating again.

If it wasn't for you, some other girl would be lucky enough to have found Joey, and I'd still be sad and thinking about my ex nonstop, so no, it's not too soon.

Grab onto love by the horns and ride it till the wheels fall off, lol

 

[_carmi]

nah its not too soon to be in love with him, but maybe soon to tell him depending on how he feel toward you. theres that one time i was going out with a guy not 3 days after he told me he loved me blablabla. i just felt so bad but i told him i loved him too. went out with this guy for 2 months but i never never have loved him. he used to be my best friend until i broke up with my bf of 11 months and 5 days after i go out with him cuz i was missing affection be he actually thought i really loved him and left my bf for him. i feel bad for him even tho i saw him recently and he's a complete bastard. now im with my bf its been 4 months and it keeps on doing good. never had a fight with him yet. im glad. im in love

 

[Amara]

Hehe, I had this same feeling a while ago... posted about it in DFL, those boys thought I was silly. lol. Really it does cause anxiety though thinking 'is it too soon' or 'if i express my feelings things will fuck up.' Some people are better at holding in those emotions, some of us just cant help but blurt them out! I think that if you feel something, express it. But like the fellas told me, words are just words, its the feeling and action that you both show and receive from each other which determines the depth of your emotions, not the usage of the word 'love'.

 

[_carmi]

that is so true. actions speak louder than words.

 

[Helena]

Grab onto love by the horns and ride it till the wheels fall off

i like that!!

 

[Synful*Luv]

ok girl...just give it a bit of time...see how things go..
im happy for u though! i wish i was in love!!! i miss that feeling

I told you girl, my Joey has a little brother, I'll have him ready for you when you get to the States, he's just as wonderful as his big brother is!

 

[Helena]

^lol...i can't wait that long! i want him NOW!

 

[k69atie]

ok girl...just give it a bit of time...see how things go..
im happy for u though! i wish i was in love!!! i miss that feeling

I know what you mean

I agree with helena, just see how things go