You're both being retards. Well, Duke was born with it so he can't help it, but I don't know you. The way you two apply your own logic to this is similar to how white people went to Africa, saw ******s that didn't look like them, and decided "we don't have to give a shit about those people because they're brown". You're being your own self centered self and not even trying to understand.
Fact: A lot of women will stay with their man even when he physically abuses them. Humans have a survival instinct, yet some people commit suicide. This should be some sort of implicator for how much your mind can become DELUSIONED through SOCIAL CONSTRUCTS. If a person is alone with low self-esteem, a violent husband will seem more attractive than no husband at all.
The fact that women have these issues is the reason we need campaigns. It's the reason they need help. They will not help themselves, so unless the rest of us intervene, these women will be abused to death and you will sit there and talk about how much you'd like to beat the dude that did it - when all it would have took was for you to not be a non-understanding asshole in the first place.