What I do, and so far it has worked for me, is do what I feel. I say/do as I like and it doesn't get me in trouble, but then I'm not someone who wants to scare small children with my fashion sense, I don't act as though I have turrets. I don't have a problem dressing appropriately for work, not treating other employees I don't know like my best mate.. I'd prefer to just do my job and go home and act da fool!