aight.. here's my problem

_carmi

me, myself & us
#1
on june 26th its gonna be one year i'm with my bf. now we are going to the restaurant. but i wanna give him a lil something y'know. but i odnt know what!!!! i never ever went thru the one year, what do girls do for their bfs for their 1 year? what do they offer them?

oh and forget the strip, too shy for that. so any other ideas?
 
#2
Get some nice lingerie, bath oil, massage oil. Pamper him then tell him you will do anything he wants you to. I guarantee you will both love it.
 
#3
I'm trying to remember what I did with mine when we had our one year... I cant remember though... how bad is that. I remember we wanted to get jewelry that matched, like something to put on a chain or something but never did in the end.
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#4
Amara said:
I'm trying to remember what I did with mine when we had our one year... I cant remember though... how bad is that. I remember we wanted to get jewelry that matched, like something to put on a chain or something but never did in the end.
thats bad lol

i know that is bringing me to the hotel after the restaurant. it was supposed to be a surprise but i guessed it but that was something easy to guess.

now i thought of those interactive sex videos that you have to follow what they say with your bf and like what positions to do, etc. but that would be like the fun part of my gift. he already knows about it and that would be only for fun lol. now i have to find a more romantic gift to complete my gift. i thought about giving him a chain, but i have to find a special way to give it to him. give it a romantic meaning. still i dunno if giving him a chain would be cool. what else could i do that could be sweet?
 
#5
Well my first year was spent with lance passing out. :/ but my second year was the 24th of this month, since we couldnt spend it together, we celebrated it on the 25th when we could be together. I got a whole bunch of red and white tea lights put them on candle plates. Then i got this huge 3ft tall champagne glass, glued paper mache hearts around the glass, and filled it with red, white,pink and dark pink rose petals, then i made a checkered design with purple and silver hershey kisses on this white fur carpet i have ( dark kisses representing the bad memories and silver kisses representing the good memories), then i sprinkled rose petals all over my floor and all over my bed. I burnt a cd of me and lances songs. Played that. But before that i made him dinner, and while he was relaxing on the couch i went upstairs and did it all. that way he walked in to my room, and it was candlelite and his favorite song that reminds him of me was playing. Then we spent the night together, doing whatever came to mind. Most of it was just us being naked(we both feel really close when we are like that) and just telling each other how much we mean, and then eventually turned sexual. But if your guy isnt like mine, and really into the romantic, i dont know what to tell you.

Why dont you try making something about the memories you guys had? Like a scrap book type of thing, or after dinner take him, and give him a massage while his favorite songs(if he has any) that remind you guys of each other play. I dont know it really depends on what type of guy he is. If hes more romantic or what?

Edit: congrats on your one year!
 

k69atie

SicC's Love
#6
i don't know either (none of my relationships have made it that long)

maybe a chain like already suggested or a watch or something and get it engraved with a personal message that means something to the both of you
 

Amara

New Member
#7
_carmi said:
now i thought of those interactive sex videos that you have to follow what they say with your bf and like what positions to do, etc.
Are you serious? Never even heard of that.
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#8
Amara said:
Are you serious? Never even heard of that.
didnt know about that too before that girl told me about it lol. but now thing is i have to get this in a sex shop. eh i'm a shy girl lol. but i'm gonna bring a friend with me and if i find it, i'll tell you guys how that video works and everything.
 

Emma

Well-Known Member
#10
mine and my bf's 6 months on mon and I dunno what to get him lol
he's getting me a ring (not an engagement ring :p) and taking me out for dinner :)
 

ArtsyGirl

Well-Known Member
#11
The saying goes that the way to a mans heart is through his stomach but it seems his already covered that in his gift to you (cheaky monkey) so maybe get something personal that relates to your relationship or something you know he'll really enjoy. At the end of the day he's going to love whatever you give him so dont stress to much. :D Congrats on the 1 Year!
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#12
artisticgurl said:
The saying goes that the way to a mans heart is through his stomach but it seems his already covered that in his gift to you (cheaky monkey) so maybe get something personal that relates to your relationship or something you know he'll really enjoy. At the end of the day he's going to love whatever you give him so dont stress to much. :D Congrats on the 1 Year!
thing is that he is covering most of the ideas that i have found (ex: the restaurant, the hotel) so basically i'm left with so material gifts.

now here are what i thought:
i might buy some sexy lingerie to wear under my clothes. i will also buy him a nice chain as a material gift. i would have bought him a watch, but he already told me at xmas that he doesnt wear them so i wont buy him one. so there's the lingerie, the chain, there wont be no striptease tho as i'm too shy for that.

also i think i will seriously buy the video. but that won't be for the night of the 1st anniversary. maybe the next day.

now i'm thinking what else can i do.
 

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