Ok so this thread basically encapsulates how I now use this board.
I began reading the first posts, and being interested in reading each person's comments. This carried on for a few pages. Then people started saying things like "*racist/pedophile etc etc* jokes ARE funny.. see" and this caused me to start skipping past the next few, then the next page til I really just felt like leaving.
YOU may find a particular kind of joke or word funny, that's fine. But some don't. Pedophile jokes revolt me, I seriously feel sick to the stomach when I read something like that. I really can't understand how anyone could. Someone close to me has experienced that as a child, I have 2 Nephews and a Niece and the thought of anyone touching them is unimaginable. Reading those jokes makes me think of that and THAT is something I do not want to spend my spare time doing.
Now this is personal to me, as I'm sure Kobe felt the racism is personal to him, and I am not saying any one person MUST feel as I do. But if we want this board to survive and perhaps even grow we ALL might want to consider others. I know the internet is a big anonymous space we can dump shit we'd never say to anyone face to face but reflect on why you spend your time here.
I used to come here often, now I find myself starting to read a few pages and leave. Maybe it's me that's changed.
I began reading the first posts, and being interested in reading each person's comments. This carried on for a few pages. Then people started saying things like "*racist/pedophile etc etc* jokes ARE funny.. see" and this caused me to start skipping past the next few, then the next page til I really just felt like leaving.
YOU may find a particular kind of joke or word funny, that's fine. But some don't. Pedophile jokes revolt me, I seriously feel sick to the stomach when I read something like that. I really can't understand how anyone could. Someone close to me has experienced that as a child, I have 2 Nephews and a Niece and the thought of anyone touching them is unimaginable. Reading those jokes makes me think of that and THAT is something I do not want to spend my spare time doing.
Now this is personal to me, as I'm sure Kobe felt the racism is personal to him, and I am not saying any one person MUST feel as I do. But if we want this board to survive and perhaps even grow we ALL might want to consider others. I know the internet is a big anonymous space we can dump shit we'd never say to anyone face to face but reflect on why you spend your time here.
I used to come here often, now I find myself starting to read a few pages and leave. Maybe it's me that's changed.