how would the death of a friend affect you?

[Frank Grimes]

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i know the answer for myslef, the shit would haunt me forever. But a friends close friend just hung himself like a few days ago and it has not even affected him the slightest. he was real close with him for months, all they used to do was smoke weed together.and it dont even bother him. i went down his house thinkin he'd be very upset, but he didnt care. he was almost making fun about the situation. his always been like this, like death not affecting his thinking at all. all he said was it was just going to be like his still alive but he'll never see him again, which he can deal with. anyways shits weird to me.

 

[Pacaveli-T]

depends who and the circumstances in most it would devastate me.

 

[Mr Marz]

i didnt wanna write somethin on here about this man but now i gotta. my best friend in the whole world took his own life last monday and its fuckin killin me inside. all i can say is that i hope u never gotta lose ur best friend. but he will be with me forever and my homie told me hes got a spot 4 me.

 

[C.R.Y.]

well i was crying when my friend got shot in the head. over stupid shit too..money

 

[Ay-G]

i'd probably cry.

 

[Rukas]

My friend got killed last year.

It was hard for me to deal with because I missed the funeral as I was away overseas when it happened, and my friends didnt want to tell me because they didnt want to ruin my trip. I felt like I didnt get a chance to say good bye, and hadnt seen him for ages before that when I should have.

I think about him now more than I did before, and it still gets me down. I was actually surpised at how deeply it affected me, we were never best friends, but we shared some good memories and fun times at highschool, but after we graduated we grew apart.

I miss dude, I was very cut up about it. I kept it all inside and then it burst out one night about a month after I found out, i just let it all out after some drinks at a party, everyone thought I was a bitch or something lol, but they just didnt know what happened. I just broke down like a baby. It felt good to get it out, but I was still depressed. I met my girlfriend soon after and she sort of helped me get over it, not directly, but just having her in my life helped.

I suggest you talk to your friend, dont let him hold it in like I did. Its not healthy, it ate away at me and made me hate the world around me. It was a dark period in my life.

Even now when typing about it I get teary eyed.

 

[SicC]

i lost a friend once, its tough, but its even tougher watching the ones closest to him...thats when u realize u have to be strong for them.

pz

 

[HitEmUp21]

i know the answer for myslef, the shit would haunt me forever. But a friends close friend just hung himself like a few days ago and it has not even affected him the slightest. he was real close with him for months, all they used to do was smoke weed together.and it dont even bother him. i went down his house thinkin he'd be very upset, but he didnt care. he was almost making fun about the situation. his always been like this, like death not affecting his thinking at all. all he said was it was just going to be like his still alive but he'll never see him again, which he can deal with. anyways shits weird to me.

This sounds extremely familiar to how I acted, except my friends weren't my closest friends who died.


It depends on circumstances for me, when 2 of my friends died in 2003, I was extremely immature and angry at the way they died, and as a consequence, it affected me very little..and I think some of that is my personality, I am very selfish and care not too much for others, so when people die it isn't a huge thing for me unfortunately. But as SicC said, it is extremely tough watching those who were closest to them..and that kind of makes me feel it, even though it's indirectly.

 

[The.Menace]

It did affect me, does affect me and it always will and would again affect me.

 

[Sebastian]

luckily ive never lost a friend

 

[S O F I]

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all they used to do was smoke weed together.

Understandable why he wasn't affected. Next thing you'll tell me is the dead due bought the weed all the time.

 

[r00t]

Two of my friends hung themselves within 1 week but i hadnt really hung with either of them for a long time the first 1 i just used to play football with alot but the 2nd guy he was friends with my older bro, looked out for me thru school and shit apart from the shock i cant say i showed any emotion or cried for about a month or two.

"all he said was it was just going to be like his still alive but he'll never see him again, which he can deal with. anyways shits weird to me."

That could just be a front, ppl handle things diff, u kno?

 

[Kareem]

i lost a very good friend of mine last August, shit still "Haunts" me now i guess cause we were close an the way he died, he was 21 an died from a brain tumor he didnt even know he had. R.I.P. Michael Anaya August 9th 2004

 

[Maverick-old-account]

2 kids died down the street from me on a drug overdose

i didnt even know what to do

if one of my friends that i grew up for years

or just any close friend for that matter, died...

id prolly be in the most emotional wreck possible