Fuck Friends!!
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That's how life is. We all have those friends, and at times, we're those same friends too. When you look at it, friends depend on each other and do favors for each other. The thing is, you never ask him for anything, and he asks you for things all the time. It's not a calculus question that you need to tell him to step off. But, also, don't be surprised to find out that most of your friends in the future will be just like that. The older you and your friends get, the more friendship will just consist of using one another for personal gain. You'll be around 30 years old and realize that the truest friend you ever had was when you were seven years old and playing hide-and-seek with....Johnny.
^^ i know what your saying and it is true and sad about the part where people are friends with others for personal gain.
But people are social creatures. and they have an undying fear of being able to trust no one but themselves. it scares the life out of people when they realise they have no one to trust and count on. thats why I say you got to ditch him and ride with not friends, but brothers only. your circle of the people you converste with will diminish rapidly and it may take time to find others who will be able to rely and trust. but if you dont then you will live a lie and will not be able to be with people who will encourage your personality
But people are social creatures. and they have an undying fear of being able to trust no one but themselves. it scares the life out of people when they realise they have no one to trust and count on. thats why I say you got to ditch him and ride with not friends, but brothers only. your circle of the people you converste with will diminish rapidly and it may take time to find others who will be able to rely and trust. but if you dont then you will live a lie and will not be able to be with people who will encourage your personality
the following is taken from an article i wrote with the help of someone else.
Friendship is something common amongst people, however there are different conceptions of it. Some common conceptions include the following: friends will always stick by your side, you can always rely on a friend, you can speak freely to your friend and tell them your problems, friends like you for who you are, etc. When people have personal problems such as disputes with their family members or if
they require advice they usually turn to their friends.
As many people have already stated Friendship seems to be based on benefit.Friends come together on the basis of mutual interest.
Due to the fact that friendship is based on benefit. it is easy for people to 'break out' with each other, have rows and even become enemies. This happens when their interests conflict and can be over petty things such as not going for a night out with them or larger things such as betrayal. In many cases people even talk negatively about some of their friends in front of others.
Friends even become status symbols, so people long to 'hang out' with a particular crowd to look cool. Often crowds have leaders with egos, so staying on the right side of certain people is important if you want to be accepted. For some this means 'sucking up' to them, for others it means undertaking actions to make them think you’re 'cool'.
Friendship is based on using each other. The proof of this can be seen in the fact that when friends became unusable they drift apart. Typically, if someone’s friend was to suddenly change and stop clubbing, partying and taking intersest in the same activities at every opportunity they would start treating them differently and normally 'break out' with them. Especially if this person begins to account them when they are wrong and advise them upon their actions repeatedly.
Friendship in societies is normally false as the society is founded on greed, individualism and following lusts, there never seems to be no sincerity.
Friendship is conditional to a massive degree. you only have unconditional love for a brother. Ofcourse people that you would consider 'brothers' would have to have a mutual pattern of thought.
By the way, im a muslims!
Friendship is something common amongst people, however there are different conceptions of it. Some common conceptions include the following: friends will always stick by your side, you can always rely on a friend, you can speak freely to your friend and tell them your problems, friends like you for who you are, etc. When people have personal problems such as disputes with their family members or if
they require advice they usually turn to their friends.
As many people have already stated Friendship seems to be based on benefit.Friends come together on the basis of mutual interest.
Due to the fact that friendship is based on benefit. it is easy for people to 'break out' with each other, have rows and even become enemies. This happens when their interests conflict and can be over petty things such as not going for a night out with them or larger things such as betrayal. In many cases people even talk negatively about some of their friends in front of others.
Friends even become status symbols, so people long to 'hang out' with a particular crowd to look cool. Often crowds have leaders with egos, so staying on the right side of certain people is important if you want to be accepted. For some this means 'sucking up' to them, for others it means undertaking actions to make them think you’re 'cool'.
Friendship is based on using each other. The proof of this can be seen in the fact that when friends became unusable they drift apart. Typically, if someone’s friend was to suddenly change and stop clubbing, partying and taking intersest in the same activities at every opportunity they would start treating them differently and normally 'break out' with them. Especially if this person begins to account them when they are wrong and advise them upon their actions repeatedly.
Friendship in societies is normally false as the society is founded on greed, individualism and following lusts, there never seems to be no sincerity.
Friendship is conditional to a massive degree. you only have unconditional love for a brother. Ofcourse people that you would consider 'brothers' would have to have a mutual pattern of thought.
By the way, im a muslims!
nail_polish said:
he's not writing an essay to us per se, he's just venting out for himself...the best we can do is listen and empathize
i learned this after my angels told me i was wrong for lashing out at The_One, he didnt mean to act like attention whore but just needed someone to listen to him u dont have to agree but just LISTEN and they will feel better
i learned this after my angels told me i was wrong for lashing out at The_One, he didnt mean to act like attention whore but just needed someone to listen to him u dont have to agree but just LISTEN and they will feel better
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