aricela

[shattered dreams]

^ yeah we will be seeing a lot alot alot more of each other. His mother is talking to him more like he is an adult and understands if he lives with me because of the fact lances father was always gone, and she knows how hard it is to raise a kid on his own. His father keeps pressuring him about coming home, Because of the fact his dad got out of jail just a year ago, and now lance is leaving. His father is bugging out about the fact of him living here.

Lance wants me to go to new york with him, until he actually gets his GED, because he has to take classes for it, before he can actually take the test. And his mother is talking about me living with his family and him. And i told lance that i really dont want to move out there, and he understands, he really likes it out here, and he wants his family to get a place in vegas. But he hasnt talked to them about it. And i told lancei have no problem going out to new york with him until he gets his GED, and then we come back. But i dont want to deal with his dad even running his mouth once about us, the baby or the relationship. But lance promised me, that the moment his dad says anything we are out of there, that minute.

So idk its up to lance. We are running through all the options now.Probably wont figure it out for a while.

 

[_carmi]

lanceSs idea seems good to me. for you to go there for the momentill he gets his GED and then come back to vegas both of you.

anyways i hope everything turns for the best

 

[keco52]

I think you should do whatever makes YOU comfortable. You are a new mom and you don't need any kind of stress.

 

[Helena]

I think you should do whatever makes YOU comfortable. You are a new mom and you don't need any kind of stress.

exactly!
i hope it all works out for you, try not to worry about anything, just concentrate on your gorgeous beautiful Aricela!

 

[shattered dreams]

yeah i am really not stressing out, because now that she is here, i know ill be seeing lance a lot now either way. I just dont want him to leave me and her. And i know i should do what makes me comfortable, but at the same time, lance needs to get his GED im not letting him drop out and not get his diploma, and he needs to take in n.y. Because the classes and everything out there. And here it would be too much hassle for the paper work and everything. So its just easier.

But im not really stressing, the only thing ive stressed about since being home, besides the situation with lance which isnt really bad stress just a lot on my mind type of thing, is aricela. This whole time ive really loved being a mommy. And i still do, but this morning man, i got about an hour sleep, she woke me up at 3:30 and my mom just was finally able to put her to sleep its now 8:02 shes been sleeping for about a half an hour now. I could not stop her from crying, i fed her, changed her, burped her, rocked her, kissed her, hugged her, talked to her, put her in her swing, made sure she was warm. And nothing stopped it. she would have intervals where she would stop crying for about twenty minutes and then bam it would start back up, and now im still just sitting up. Because i cant go to sleep now.

but i still love her to death. And i think im starting to expierence the hormonal imbalance. Because this morning she was crying and i put her in her little vibrating chair, and she stopped, and the music for the chair was on, and she was so peaceful, i had to hold myself back from crying.

 

[_carmi]

^yeah baby crying. some cry all the time, some dont. you'll get used to nights of no sleep and to baby cries good luck

 

[Amara]

I had a look at your pics on myspace and tried to leave a comment but it being myspace, it had a "technical error" (pfft permanent technical errors on that site, lol).

Anyway, suffice to say she is gorgeous. The pic with the 'lovely hospital gown' she looks so peaceful and sweet. And the way Lance looked so gentle with her - priceless. I'm so happy for you both.

 

[ArtsyGirl]

but this morning man, i got about an hour sleep, she woke me up at 3:30 and my mom just was finally able to put her to sleep its now 8:02 shes been sleeping for about a half an hour now. I could not stop her from crying, i fed her, changed her, burped her, rocked her, kissed her, hugged her, talked to her, put her in her swing, made sure she was warm. And nothing stopped it. she would have intervals where she would stop crying for about twenty minutes and then bam it would start back up, and now im still just sitting up. Because i cant go to sleep now.

but i still love her to death. And i think im starting to expierence the hormonal imbalance. Because this morning she was crying and i put her in her little vibrating chair, and she stopped, and the music for the chair was on, and she was so peaceful, i had to hold myself back from crying.

Your mom may have already told you this, and as a mother I bet its hard to do but my mum always told me a story bout when she became a mum at 17. Her first child and she couldnt let my older brother cry, everytime he started she would hold him or give him some kind of affection. Which when babies are crying and you know they are ok, healthy, then you just gotta let them get it out. The way my mum got through it was by putting on some music to drown it out or go for a walk outside so she didnt hear it. Try it and hopefully she'll learn that she has to sleep. Hope all the best and get some rest

 

[keco52]

wheres that baby registry!!! A lot of my friends are having babies and I went shopping with my cousin today...who's also having a baby in May and talked her into getting this nursery collection...even tho I bought most of it heh...

This zoo animals bedding set was $180 :woah: ...That's more than my bedding set cost...but it's sooo cute. And her crib is cherry wood I believe. It's darker and I think it looks nicer.

And I got her the hamper...

But while we were in the store I found an ad which apparently they don't keep in the store...only send out in the mail or newspaper...but I was lucky because they had loads of coupons and I ended up saving a lot. You'd think I was the one having the baby I hope she doesn't get mad I'm taking over...but it's her second baby so I think she's less excited this time.

She had a girl and now she's having a boy. I wanna paint lil zebras and crocodiles on his wall Makes me want to have a be'be...almost.

HAH while we were in the store...This lady walked up and asked if we needed help...And I said "Yes, were having a baby we wanna see this whole collection." :laugh: She looked at me crazy like "You 2 are both having a baby or?" I think she thought we were a lesbian couple and I had her artificially insemenated...

I'm way too excited about the simplest things. But anyway...the reason I made this post

Oh yea I wanna buy your baby something

 

[Synful*Luv]

okay, send pic plz...k?...thnx...to greenp412@msn.com

 

[shattered dreams]

syn, i didnt send pics to you?

 

[shattered dreams]

Syn, i sent pics in response to this...

I probably didn't, lol, it's mizzyllnaaia@peoplepc.com

and change ur sig, ur a mom now :thumb:

It was posted in, Vegas ladies thread.

Did your email change? or does someone else go on your account? im so damn confused.

 

[shattered dreams]

Oh yea I wanna buy your baby something

thanks for the offer, your such a sweetheart. But really ive been getting stuff out the ass from family, and now lances family is hooking her up, and my brothers wife came and brought a WHOLE BUNCH and i mean alot of stuff for her. And my mom, gma, sister. Everyone is buying her so much. Thanks so much for the offer, but really i dont want you spending your money on a girl, thats already spoiled rotten and shes only a week old! lol:laugh:

 

[Synful*Luv]

U sent pics to that other account at peoplepc, but I can't open them for some reason

::cries::

 

[Missy "C"]

awwww, congratz!!! I'm so happy for you becca! Great to know everything was ok

and I want some pics too, plz! mariaceleste86@gmail.com

 

[shattered dreams]

okay missy you got mail, and syn i sent again.

 

[Missy "C"]

awwww, she looks so cute! what a beautiful baby and lance and you look so proud, hope everything works out and you can find happiness together and thx a lot for the pics, they are great!

 

[Synful*Luv]

Awwwww, she's so gorgeous, that last pic made me a little creeped out though, lol, I was eating. You and Lance look like happy parents and I'm very happy for you two!!!!

She was so adorable with the proud grampa!

Awwww, lol, awwwww, I can't stop saying awww

 

[shattered dreams]

grandpa?

lol are you talking about the guy in blue? haha thats my doctor. lmao

And sorry about that last pic hahaha :laugh:

Thanks for the comments.

 

[Synful*Luv]

LMAO, sorry, :laugh: