Am I to critical?

[fields316_2000]

At 25 years old, where should you be in life? Right now I'm looking around at these douche bags that my girl wants me to be nice to, (because they are with her sisters) but im like this - they aint about shit and are losers in my eyes. They live at home with mom and wont move, barely have bank accounts, and from what I remember may or may not have graduated...and they are turning 26 soon.

I told her and my mom they are losers and I dont want to be around dudes like that. I'm thinking 'damn if im facing thirty in 5 years- where am I or where should i be?' ..I've got the credits in school for my degree, and the gub'ment owes me my house from the military, but is it alil judgemental to not want to be around somene that doesnt have goals? I refuse to live back at home with anyones momma or lounge around like that...am I wrong?

 

[shattered dreams]

no your not wrong, your just honest, you dont like people that are like that, nothing wrong with it, if they dont like it. fuck ittt. we all have people we dont like....ex some people dont like preps or goths or what the fuck ever..

 

[fields316_2000]

yeah I guess you are right. Im looking at my friends that are doing things like bachlor degrees in 2 years, and thinking dang..these other guys aint shit!

 

[Silleone]

i agree with u saying that they should be trying to do something with there lives but u still seem a little stuck up to me, it seems like your one of those guys that thinks hes better than people becuz you got this and you got that, i hope you dont raise your children to spit at the homeless and shit, u have to understand that the world is filled with all diffrent type of people, for all u know these dudes are real cool and are very nice people, how would u feel if they said they didnt wanna hang out with some "Prepy army guy that has 0 personality" befor they even got to know u.

 

[Amara]

Moving this to thugz.

 

[Maverick-old-account]

yeah, seriously, i get what your sayin, but i dont think that just because ppl dont have goals or whatever that you shouldnt hang with them.. people are people and that is that, dont be stuck up, sometimes ppl arent as fourtunate as you to have everything planned and layed out...

 

[Get In The Van I Have Candy]

Whats so bad in being nice to them? Are you superior to them? Are you going to sleep with them? What do you care in what they do in life? Just say hi and bye, you don't have to be friends with them. Just worry about yourself and everything will fall into place.

 

[TG1 Ghetto One]

yeah, seriously, i get what your sayin, but i dont think that just because ppl dont have goals or whatever that you shouldnt hang with them.. people are people and that is that, dont be stuck up, sometimes ppl arent as fourtunate as you to have everything planned and layed out...

thats the best way to put it, to be fair you have no right to judge anyone jus cause you doin well, ya dont know what these people may have been through

 

[Jokerman]

Show me who you hang with, and I'll show you where you're going.

 

[Pacaveli-T]

no i feel the same i dont want to date someone who doesnt have ambition, and i think you have very good sense of ambition too....anyways i think you are very bright to admit it and look at it thankfully at 19 i got a head start on wanting to accomplish things with me and for those who dont well i guess theres no point in affiliating with them.

 

[haunted]

Yes you are, and you seem like a snob.

 

[S O F I]

As long as they don't do negative things, there's not a particularly good reason to hate them and not want to be around them.

 

[makaveli_411]

You ain't being critical, you're just looking at it the way you want. Personally my friend I would be working and putting some money on the side and then 2-3 years later I would get a wife since you're going to be around 30. Plus with your diploma it's all good, so don't stress too much but do whatever you got to do in order to achieve your goals. Also don't forget, try to get someone as educated as you are or more if you want yourself to be fully synchronized with the person you're going to be with for the rest of your life.

Peace

 

[fields316_2000]

what i failed to mention is that these arnt my boys. these are people i was spoon fed to hang out with. one is a 25 year old man, who picked out a 16/17 year old girl out of a teen age church group he was teaching to have sex with. lives at home with mom and generally sucks each way you look at him. his mom cant physically work-he took money he saved to spend at disneyland with his under age girl friend, while his mom begged for gas money. = shit head.

the other guy is 25 and wont do anything but play kid games and let his friends verbally abuse his wife...who live in his moms house.

it may sound like im stuck up but damn..dont you think that birds of a feather flock together? My phone rings and its usually the females they are with to talk with my chick about thier man and how bad they are..so i'll try and be cool and say hey 'lets do this or that together'..nope..it takes effort...so some times when im working hard and doing my thing i go aroudn them and i get crap about 'college is stupid' or try and give me advice about what i should be doing..but i noticed my other pals that are living a real life are mroe on the same wavelength..

 

[fields316_2000]

funny thing is we all graduated the same time, its just i had to make a decision - provide for myself or do stuff to be put in jail ..i chose the hard road while these guys have their moms to rely on. Im like man, isnt it time to move out of the back room?? everything I got I had to basically and literally bust my ass for, so when someone is lazy about trying it pisses me off..

 

[fields316_2000]

man..i never once thought that i could be part of the problem..maybe I've been thinking about their silly habits as if it were contagious..and perhaps I've been alil stuck up..ill think about that, but again jokerman was right..see your friends and see your future..

 

[Maverick-old-account]

thats the best way to put it, to be fair you have no right to judge anyone jus cause you doin well, ya dont know what these people may have been through

exactly.. and in addition to what i said before... sometimes what the less fortunate people need a friend. seeing that you seem to have everything planned out why dont u shine some light on a less fortunate person and show them that theyre worth something. if theyre around u eventually theyll want to do what you are doing and get motivated off you.

 

[fields316_2000]

^^never thought about it like that man..thanks

 

[haunted]

what i failed to mention is that these arnt my boys. these are people i was spoon fed to hang out with. one is a 25 year old man, who picked out a 16/17 year old girl out of a teen age church group he was teaching to have sex with. lives at home with mom and generally sucks each way you look at him. his mom cant physically work-he took money he saved to spend at disneyland with his under age girl friend, while his mom begged for gas money. = shit head.

the other guy is 25 and wont do anything but play kid games and let his friends verbally abuse his wife...who live in his moms house.

it may sound like im stuck up but damn..dont you think that birds of a feather flock together? My phone rings and its usually the females they are with to talk with my chick about thier man and how bad they are..so i'll try and be cool and say hey 'lets do this or that together'..nope..it takes effort...so some times when im working hard and doing my thing i go aroudn them and i get crap about 'college is stupid' or try and give me advice about what i should be doing..but i noticed my other pals that are living a real life are mroe on the same wavelength..

This info changes my opinion, yes they are losers.

 

[Maverick-old-account]

^^never thought about it like that man..thanks

yeah no problem...