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Originally Posted by SiGh
I could see how that bothers you, but you think it might be that she's self conscious of her breath or something else maybe? Or you know what, maybe she doesn't like it when someone looks at her while she's asleep.
You ever wake up and someones looking at you? That shits just plain weird, freaks you out. Maybe she doesn't want that. Or like she doesn't feel comfortable when someone is (possibly according to her) looking at her while she sleeps. Maybe she drools.
What is making you guys take a break?
How long have you guys been together? (I don't remember)
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yeah it could be something else, i'm not sure. umm we had a really big issue where she has a male best friend (a friend that she never dated but slept with as recently as a month before we dated). When we starting dating, they remained very close and I was uncomfortable with that since I knew he liked her very much and they had did stuff so recently. I told her that I wasn't asking her to give up her best male friend, but since she was with me, there would have to be certain boundaries. Basically, I didn't want them hanging out together.
She took it as me being controlling and telling her who she could and couldn't hang out with. It turned into a massive issue and we ended up breaking up over it. I did some thinking and agreed that I didn't mind if they talked at work (they work together) and even if they wanted to go to the gym together, I could deal with that. But she wouldn't compromise so I thought it was over.
To my surprise, she confronted me a few days later and told me she had been thinking about things and that I was right. We agreed that they could go to the gym and if she was hanging out with a group of people and he happened to be among that group, that was okay too. But that's it.
So we agreed to go on a break (this was 2 weeks ago). She said she wanted to be with me but didn't want to rush back into it. She wanted to talk to this kid and tell him that she valued him as a friend, but nothing more. I agreed that this was the best decision as well. As recently as last week, she told this kid that she wasn't interested in him. That she valued his friendship, but wasn't looking for anything more than that.
Well, this kid flipped the fuck out. He basically told her he loves her. They had a huge fight and he refuses to talk to her. Naturally, she feels like absolute shit because she feels like she lost one of her best friends. I understand how she feels, but I told her she was honest and that she had made the right decision. As of right now, I'm giving her time to sort this whole thing out. She doesn't want to rush back into anything with me until things are back on track.
That's where we're at now.
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