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That's it
He's creeping. I snooped his msn chat logs, hacked his facebook profile that I was supposed to know the password but he had changed it and saw some inbox messages I didn't like at all. I'm 99.9999% he did. I'm heartbroken.
I had some suspicions but I never actually thought he would. If he didn't he is this close to doing it as per the messages.
I'm really sad. I mean fuck I know for a whole month we didn't have any fucking sex but I was overstressed and very very depressed. You think after 3 fucking years the relationship would be fucking stronger than that.
I'm not reacting rationally right now but by the time he gets home in 3hrs I'll be better and act rationally I hope.
Anyhow thanks for letting me vent once again. Guess D4L is my new place to vent.
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http://www.streethop.com/950216-post5.html
surprisingly, it doesn't feel too great being right.
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The internet is an evil spot (those social networks and shit), I've seen people meet up with ladies on Facebook and ruin good relationships just for a piece of ass.
Anyways, don't do anything drastic until you get his side of the story.
Else from that, I guess I'll be speaking to ya on MSN if anything
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Nah it's not some random woman. I met the girl. I know who she is. She is his bestfriend's friend.
I'm being surprisingly calm right now. Was talking it over the phone with a friend. He's home soon I can't wait to hear what he has to say in his defense.
All I am 100% is I'm keeping the 50inch HD TV. Fuck him.
And SOFI ever since the graduation party thing I have been suspicious. He didn't have his msn chat logs recorded at first, but I made sure they were for future conversations 2 weeks ago and I'm glad I did. Better finding out now than months later. I know I went to great lengths to find out but I have no trouble admitting doing so, especially when my doubts are confirmed.
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Sorry to hear that Carmi.
I also hate to say it, but once a cheater always a cheater. Don't give him another chance. I also would say to go get tested since you didn't use anything with him.
I am glad to find out my ex wasn't cheating, and the dude she was talking about with her co-worker got fired. It was the end of that.
I have been cheated on once, but it was a HS thing.
All I can say is being suprisingly calm is kind of dangerous b/c you my explode on him.
Whatever you do, don't throw anything at him or hit him. You don't want to go to jail or give him any type of ammo to use against you.
I hope and pray that you have an easy time after everything is resolved.
....oh, and make sure you keep that TV! Xbox and all that shit!
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05-11-2009, 11:03 AM
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I will explode on him. I know. I don't care.
And I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater. Cause it should apply to me but its doesn't. I can't stay with him because I will ever trust him again. Never.
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sorry carmi :[
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05-11-2009, 11:42 AM
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it's okay. it's life. what can i do eh?
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what kind of stuff was he chatting about with this girl?
why were you "very very depressed" ?
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sorry to hear that.
and yea, fuck him, keep the tv!
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