Anybody noticed how girls perceive men who try to be nice to them? I think when a guy is trying to be nice to a girl it doesn't work the way it should. Women oftenly see being nice as trying to hit on them and bowing down at the same time. When a new met guy acts nice he's not considered serious, he's being perceived as a suspicious dude. I think that situation changes in a long-term relationships - that's when girls like men to be nice and while being nice to your long term girlfriend you get those "great guy" points.

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Chicks want you to be an ass and cocky. If you're not, than you will most likely not get her attention.

^^ thats not true...u gotta be yourself man..if ur not an ass at heart then dont be one...u have to be yourself cuz thats how you know she likes you for who YOU are.......but i think ur mistaking confidence for being an ass....being confident is what a man should be.........

and unless the girl really likes guys that are asses....but thats on her...no one likes a person who talks out of their ass.....

Girls REALLY like who are asses and cocky.

you can be somewhat nice... but dont kiss there ass.

when your at a club with a woman. tease em poke fun of em a little, dont do it to a point you'll hurt there feelings then in their mind they see you as a asshole.

everyday attractive women shoot down Hundreds of guys who hit on them. WHY?? because most men go up to a woman and seek their approval, they think that being too nice and giving WAY too many compliments will win them the girl, and in reality it doesnt. *because most men dont get it*??

just remember to flip it back on a woman. like they do when a guy talks to them and winds up rejecting them.

**Not saying all guys get rejected** there are guys that know how to create that attraction.

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In my opinion unattractive looser guys invented the whole "nice guys finish last" mentality to cover up their own short comings. It's not that you have to be an asshole, but girls respond to self confidence, and of course people that are either good looking, or intelligent, or have something going for themselves are going to be confident.

The whole "you have to be an asshole to girls" mentality is just a way for underachieving males to try to put themselves up above achievers. It's like saying "oh he may have luck with the girls and he may be what I want to be but he isn't nice and I am so at least I have that better than him." Im sorry to those guys, but that is bullshit.

Of course girls do fall for bad guys, but its not because they are assholes, but because they have confidence, albeit poorly placed confidence.

I've never purposefully been an asshole to anybody that didn't deserve it, certainly not females. I pride myself on being polite and a modern day gentlemen; and I have never had any problem with gaining female attention or companionship.

So no, do not be an asshole to girls, that will only get you so far for so long. Just be proud of who you are, be confident, know what you want and display your own self worth, but at the same time, acknowledge their worth.

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yeh poking fun at them works, as long as you dont go to far, which is something i always do. im not sure what happens but after a few beers my goal is to upset people, not get a bitch.

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^^^ happens to me too

and sometimes they dont know i'm joking when i say "why should i move? your fatass needs the walking"

some ppl just have no sense of humor

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but hey... nice guys like me finish last

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^This.

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