How Would You Feel?

Euphanasia · #1 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 01:44 AM

This is old news, but it hasn't been posted yet so I guess it's kind of new.

SOFI was wondering where all my D4l posts were, so here it is:

Back in december i got a new apt. my bro dated a girl downstairs who had two female roomates. this one roomate was all about hanging out with me although i wasn't too interested.

anyway, we got drunk one night and had sex. then i decided on something. i wasn't overly attracted, but i thought she was cool and decided i was going to give it a shot.

i texted and called her a few times and no reply. so finally i get pissed and she says she's going to my apt to explain shit, so i say cool.

she never comes up. so i'm drinking that night and it goes down over AIM about what a bitch she's being.
My case is that if a guy fucked some girl and didn't talk to her again after sex he'd be the scum of the earth, but since it was a girl fucking me over i suppose it's all cool then?

So we havent spoken in six months now. her roomate recently told me i was being weird about shit and i said uh, there's nothing to be weird about. i want nothing to do with her.

do you see my point here?

Farzin · #2 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 01:48 AM

You shoulda just let it go after she didnt return your calls.

You kinda seem clingy. To top it off you weren't that attracted to her to begin with.

If you ask me her roommate is right and you were being weird.

Dogmatic187 · #3 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 02:45 AM

You tried man, and like you said you weren't really attracted to her, she seems like she's really stuck up too.

S O F I · #4 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 03:12 AM

She hit it and quit it.

Da_Funk · #5 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 04:22 AM

i READ THE FIRST FOUR LINES BUT WHAT i GATHERED WAS YOU DID THE GOOD OLD FUCK AND CHUCK. nOTHEING WRONG WIT5H THAT.

_carmi · #6 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 05:56 AM

she just wanted the sex dude... she got it and now she wants nothing from you. you should have let it go after she didnt reply to your first messages.

Little Skittle · #7 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 11:16 AM

I agree with Farzin and Carmi.

Euphanasia · #8 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 02:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Farzin

You shoulda just let it go after she didnt return your calls.

You kinda seem clingy. To top it off you weren't that attracted to her to begin with.

If you ask me her roommate is right and you were being weird.

Maybe I didn't explain this well enough. This girl was the one that was clingy. Literally comes upstairs to my apt to sit around for hours and hours because I was up there and allthewhile I didn't want her around. Then after a few weeks I was drinking one night and we hooked up (she was sober). And here I am thinking, I could be an asshole like a lot of guys are and just forget about her now that I've slept with her but I'm not going to do that. Maybe I'll give this a shot and see where this goes. So I do the right thing and call her later and this is what I get for it. I don't know. It just seems like if the scenario was reversed, I would come across as a huge asshole.

Quote:

Originally Posted by _carmi

she just wanted the sex dude... she got it and now she wants nothing from you. you should have let it go after she didnt reply to your first messages.

Right, that seems apparent. My point is, I think that's pretty shallow. If a guy did that to you, how would you feel?

Farzin · #9 (**permalink**) 07-05-2008, 04:16 PM

^Oh okay i see what you are saying.

Maybe she had gotten to a point where she didnt care about you anymore and just wanted to have sex and leave you hanggin dry to see how that would feel lol.

Maybe you got a small dick and she ran off.

Maybe you are a minute man.

Maybe she found out your real name is PaulyPac and have two accounts on Streethop and she was disgusted.

Bottom line is you shouldn't stress yourself with this my friend. Bitches come and go but....well actually no but.

PS. If you get the chance again fuck her, again. Don't call or wait for a call this time.

keco52 · #10 (**permalink**) 07-06-2008, 07:38 PM

There could be a million possibilities why she didn't respond.

You'd come off as a huge asshole if she had sex with you expecting more and you led her to believe it would be something more BUT it seems to me like (at first) you both did it just...to fuck...and nothing more. No strings attached. You changed your mind afterwards and maybe she's still thinking it's just a one night stand. You should be thankful she's not planning your wedding.