I was having a convo earlier with a female friend of mine, and she's a girl who's been fucked over time and time again by guys. She gets really interested in them and then they cheat on her and just demolish her heart, and she tells me because of her expierences she really can't see herself ever getting married to any guy.

So I thought about it myself, and she has a point. Marriage isn't really that important to me, personally. If I were to marry the woman I love, what would it prove? I would still love her the same, I would still treat and respect her, nothing would change, we would still be together, living together. Of course, some people don't have the option I do, some cultures have arranged marriages and such.

So I ask you guys what are your views? Do you see yourself ever settling down and why or why not?

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yeh i will get married. i hope in the next 5 years or so. a few months ago i would have said i want to be married and hive kids in the next 2 years, but i was burnt out. after a few months off the grog i am getting back in form now.

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not really.

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im 50/50 on it. i would like to, but then if i went the remaining years on this earth single and died at 75. that would be okay.

i see friends and family have their trouble with relationships. i have that worry that if i make that one simple mistake and fuck it up, i would lose everything and if possible later on down the road we had a child together. i'd get stuck with paying child support. (i would blow my brains out).

i do not have a wondering eye. so i wouldnt have to worry about that. if anything she would wind up cheating on me while im at work or something.

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Dunno, Im almost thirty, you never know but it isnt looking to promising atm.

pz

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well i never really saw myself getting married either, that is until i met my fiance. but marriage is a personal decision, since in a lot of ways it isn't necessary. i have friends whose parents have been together for 25+ years and never got married, and their relationships are fine, in fact it seems marriage causes more trouble than it's worth smetimes. but i'm in a position that i know i want to spend the rest of my life with her, so why not do it?

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It's scary as I'm afraid that I will get married to a totally random girl who I will only find "okay" because I want to get married. I don't want to literally have a wedding but I want to have a wife.

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I feel ya. Getting married these days seems more like putting a label on your relationship instead of a holy unity between two people. That being said I'll probably end up getting married one day.

No thanks.

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Im tryna come across as normal now
all my life i've been called insane
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can't tame em, can't blame em
for looking at me like i can't change
but with that said, still i rise"