Lets say you know a really good looking girl. You know she could kiss and have sex with many guys because shes attractive and nearly every guy would take the opportunity to make out with her etc....nevertheless she doesnt do any of it (not out of religious reasons,k), unless she is in a relationship.

How do you look at this scenario?

Is this behaviour something postive or negative in your eyes? Would you assume she is just shy? Do you respect her behaviour in a way, because she is resisting the temptation?lol Whatever....

Sry if its a lame question. I just needed to make a new thread in DFL.

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I respect anyone that doesnt take the easy way in respect of their personal morals.

I certainly think giving in to temptation is the easy road.

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I'd respect her.
Then i'd be in a relationship with her.
Then i'd bang her brains out.
Then i'd stop respecting her.
Then i'd leave her.
Then i'd tell her the reason i left her is because she is a prude so that the next guy she meets has the time of his life because i have done everything possible with her and opened her up to new possibilities.
Then i go to church and confess my sins and am forgiven by Tom Cruise.

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I would definitely respect her, it's not all the time you would meet a girl like that.

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Why So Serial?

I would respect her as well. My guess would be that she figured out what she wants for herself and who she is, she formed a set of morals and she's sticking by them.

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happy thoughts everyone.

This is what us guys call girlfriend material.

i dont know and i dont care

ill i want is punani if i dont get it i get mad and start stabbin peoepel.

i give them conjuctvitis on purpose then i listen to tupac NIGGA so we can get drunk and smoke weed all day
rogh

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" i lurve bitches "

A women like that angers me. Though everyone has different ways of thinking, using a relationship to do shit is cowardly in the sense she is afraid to be called a slut if she were to do shit randomly with another guy while not in a relationship. Doing shit while in a relationship is the high class way of doing shit without being called a slut, so the say...

She will do shit only while she is in a relationship. If she is not in a relationship, she won't do shit; therefore it is OK to do shit if you are in a relationship but not OK if your not in one?

This girl must be in a lot of relationships then. I'm no one to judge her or to say anything bad about her cause even I could turn out to be a person like this (I hope not) and you can't judge people from one thing that they do, although when someone does something I don't like repeatedly I don't like them or maybe even trust them as much...

The question is... what happens when she breaks up with a BF and goes to another one? She starts doing shit with the other guy again and again, and again with the next guy. Just like the pink bunny, it keeps going and going..

Would I be with a girl like that? Only if I really cared about her and she cared about me. But she would have to care about me more than I care about her....

The bottom line is:

Whether you do shit while in a relationship or not, it doesn't matter because your intentions are the same. This is what is negative. Her intentions. It's not the person that's negative, it's the way of doing things or the way of thinking.

It's not wrong to do shit, but it has to feel right, and for the right reasons, and not being afraid to be called a slut or a man-whore or anthing like that...

I don't just want to be in a relationship to do shit. I don't mind having friends with benefits.

It's kinda stupid to take the way one person chooses to conduct herself as a condemnation of the way you choose to live your own life. Stupid, or insecure bitchmadeness, I'm not sure.

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from now on just carry a sign with you that says that every time you go outside and see what happens to you.