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06-18-2008, 06:19 PM
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My Brother Just Broke Up with His G/F
It lasted about seven and a half months. He just went over there to talk to her and they broke up. Basically, he told her he felt that he was putting 90 percent into the relationship and she was only putting in 10 percent.
She agreed and told him he was the best boyfriend he ever had.
He asked her what the issue was, and she told him that it was too perfect. He cared too much for her, did too much for her, etc.
She said her other boyfriends didn't treat her very well and that her parents didn't have a very good relationship. And, in light of this, she had grown accustomed to relationships that were volatile.
This kind of shit really bothers me. I understand where she's coming from to a certain extent. But the larger part of me is saying:
Just how awful is it when someone can be the greatest boyfriend/girlfriend in the world and the other person must withdraw from the relationship because things are going too well? And how many men and women in this world are married to bitches and assholes who would give so much to be with someone that really cared about them.
I guess it really makes me loathe humanity.
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06-18-2008, 06:38 PM
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it sounds like she needs her space...when a man or a women comes on too strong to another man or women, and the man or women thats being approached hasn't fully decided if he or she wants to be with that other person, it pushes both ppl in the relationship farther away. it sounded like she needed space..maybe thats why she stopped putting in effort....thats why it is most important not to crowed your partner...have your own hobbies ..stop trying to be the man where you wan't to give her anything and everything...thats what i learned...be an independent man before the relationship and also while you are in the relationship..thats key....not just putting on an act...but because you really like doing things independently..sure everyone likes special treatment and being pampered..but not everyday...
and a lot of women are independent...so it shouldn't be like we are trying to give them something they can't get for themselves...sure they might need a shoulder to cry on maybe sometimes but its a bad idea to overcrowd them.....
thats why i got my own hobbies, i do my own things, it pisses me off when my mom had to wake me up all the time in highschool just to go to school cuz i was hanging out at night on schoolnights and yell at me ....and thats one of my reasons to be an independent person...not just cuz of that...but no women is going to make me feel that i am a burden on their shoulders. i wan't to be an independent man..do things on my own, cook, clean whatever, don't want to put weight on anyone's shoulders but my own..im the boss....and i don't want to control anyone by being the boss..just standing on my two feet thats all
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06-18-2008, 07:07 PM
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7 months, who fucking cares.
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06-18-2008, 07:10 PM
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I thought this was going to read "My brother just broke up with his sister".
Imagine my disappointment in humanity.
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06-18-2008, 08:24 PM
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in time she will realise what she lost, and will probably come running back to him..
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06-18-2008, 08:46 PM
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She wasn't into him but went along with it because he treated her well. Your brother was a simp and got played. I hope the sex was good.
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06-18-2008, 09:03 PM
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I thought this was going to read "My brother just broke up with his sister".
Imagine my disappointment in humanity.
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I absolutely thought that, too.
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06-18-2008, 09:11 PM
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She wasn't into him but went along with it because he treated her well. Your brother was a simp and got played. I hope the sex was good.
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there you go.
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put her in the boot of his car for a few days, she will change her mind. trust me.
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06-19-2008, 12:22 AM
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in time she will realise what she lost, and will probably come running back to him..
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i agree. its her lost. your brother needs to move on. theres hundreds of women turning different ages every single day. one window closes another one opens
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